Intimacy: Today, I told my husband that while he was away I had had a miscarriage....

By sadsadlady - 14/12/2009 20:25 - Canada

Today, I told my husband that while he was away I had had a miscarriage. His response? "If you can't take care of our baby while it is still inside you, how can I trust you to take care of it when it comes out?" FML

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By Anonymous - 05/04/2019 18:00

Today, I realised how little my husband trusts me after I told him I was pregnant and the first words out of his mouth were, “Is it mine?” FML

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By Blindsider - 28/03/2023 12:00

Today, I had my second miscarriage. My husband responded by throwing a bitch fit because I "totally blindsided him with this miscarriage shit” knowing he wanted kids, and if he'd known he wouldn’t have married me in the first place. He threw his wedding band in the trash and stormed off. FML

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Empathy

By Anonymous - 16/04/2021 23:59 - New Zealand - Wellington

Today, I had a miscarriage. My partner doesn't understand why I'm upset, saying, "It wasn't even a real baby yet." FML

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By greenchan - 25/02/2011 05:12 - United States

Today, I had to take an emergency contraceptive. I was talking to my boyfriend about it, and I told him that my stomach really hurt. His response? "Aw. That's just the baby dying." FML

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Dick

By Olivia23 - 08/07/2021 11:00

Today, my husband threw an epic temper tantrum because I wouldn’t have sex with him. I recently suffered from a miscarriage and the thought of anything going on down there makes me uncomfortable. He eventually calmed down and said, "Fine, just don’t be surprised if I end up cheating." FML

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Mr Sensitivity

By Anonymous - 08/09/2020 14:01 - United States - Waterville

Today, I spent four hours at the ER because I had a miscarriage. The father of the baby was being sweet and supportive while I was there and checked in on me after I got home. Six hours after we found out we lost our baby, he asked for a threesome. He still doesn’t understand what’s wrong. FML

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By Anonymous - 29/06/2011 23:52 - United States

Today, my boyfriend tried to tell me that he was worried our child might not be mine because he was cheating on me when I got pregnant. FML

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By jjjjjjmmmmm92 - 20/07/2010 23:08 - United States

Today, I was at work, when a co-worker began to shake a near empty box. Without thinking, I shouted "What if there was a baby in there? You just killed it!" I then remembered she recently suffered a miscarriage. FML

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By Anonymous - 17/08/2022 12:00

Today, after I got pregnant off a dude who turned out to be married, and he'd told me he’d support me and the baby on the side, I had a miscarriage. Now he's pretending he doesn't even know me, and I can’t even tell his wife because without the baby, I can’t even prove we had sex that one time. FML

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Alcohol is no excuse

By Carrie - 21/01/2023 22:00

Today, after spending thousands on 4 failed IVF attempts, my husband of 3 years told me he had a drunken one night stand last month with his ex, who he said he hasn’t spoken to in years, is pregnant with his baby. There goes our future together. I thought trust and being honest meant something, but obviously not. FML

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Bran_Dizzle_ 0

Tuesday 15 December 2009 3:54

That's effed up I mean, REALLY effed up Damn.

sweatnut 0

Tuesday 15 December 2009 6:24

WTF. I hope this isn't true. if it is then you need to leave him. That is one of the cruelest, hurtful insensitive things Ive heard in a long time. My wife and I lost our first child 4 years ago to a miscarriage and I still get upset by it, thankfully we have 2 beautiful children now. leave that loser.

Comments

Wiggles_ 1

Sunday 25 September 2011 6:16

What a ******* heartless dickhole thing to say. DROP THAT BITCH LIKE A ROCK. **** him. Not literally.

andieraimundo 0

Friday 7 October 2011 3:33

Aww im so sorryD:

chrisramsay 5

Monday 21 November 2011 7:06

That is horrible I would leave him or be really pissed when I lost my baby it was the worst thing ever

thereseg69 7

Sunday 12 February 2012 23:19

He's an asshole

lolz0701 4

Thursday 16 February 2012 6:40

That is absolutely horrible. A miscarriage is a terrible thing that nobody should ever have to deal with.

purebliss7 6

Saturday 18 February 2012 10:43

if i were u i would be fileing for divorce. i am s sorry for your loss

e_stone_85 3

Monday 27 February 2012 15:06

This is horrible. I'd leave that insensitive bastard. Very sorry for your loss.

shunshunrikka89 0

Tuesday 10 April 2012 3:39

I don't know what's worse: the fact that he said that or the fact that he wasn't as emotionally scarred as you. Either way you should leave him and say "if you couldn't take care of me in my time of need, how can I trust you to take care of me and our future children when times get rough?" dump that dick hole!