Oh, look, you have to talk to someone about that. Look up alcateen, and talk to a counselor at your school. I don't care if he is your dad. That does not entitle him to "boundary issues." Sticks and stones can break your bones (and that carries consequences), and words will never hurt you; but when he crosses the boundary, that is a decision that he made, and he should face the consequences. It's not your fault, it's his. Please do not keep silent. They say that when good men do nothing, evil triumphs. My personal corollary is that good men do not stand for that; but when the victims don't speak up, how can we possibly do anything? We're not frigging mentalists. Tell someone. Please tell someone. You could probably get emancipated if you do not want to go to a foster home.

I am touched by your concern. Truly! Worry not, I am an adult now and I don't have to deal with his antics anymore.