it doesn't matter what the order of the objects nouns is, so stop being a hypocritical grammer nazi

In actuality, "me and my intelligence" is grammatically correct. However, it's socially rude to put yourself first. My original point isn't bashing OP's intelligence, though in grammar it is indeed better you use "my intelligence and I", but rather pointing out that politeness and value can be expressed with the order. The "little bitch" part comes in then. Also, if OP doesn't value the intelligence they posses, what else can they be lacking in, besides intelligence? Hence the "I wonder why". If you intend to point out next that it doesn't matter because the majority society no longer cares, then both you and OP deserve to have their intellegence insulted. Hopefully that lesson taught you slight bit more. I know the Internet is made for assumptions, but at least have sone knowledge in the subject you're going to jump to conclusions about, alright? :D

I work in retail and I see it equally from men and women. Just throwing that out there, though women do tend to be a little more extreme about it than men.