I'm sure you are perfectly healthy and beautiful. Seriously, what kind of man doesn't appreciate the curves of a woman? If he wants to sex up a girl with no chest and no ass, then maybe he swings the other way?

130 could be overweight, depending on age and height. But I'm guessing you look pretty normal, and your boyfriend doesn't deserve you, because he's a sex-only seeking piece of stupid.

Here's the BMI Curve. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Body_mass_index_chart.svg If you're taller than 5' 4" I would say you can afford to gain a little. I'm 5' 11" ish and I weigh that much, and I can't gain more if I tried :/ . You seem perfectly normal, your ex was just a twat. Even if you fell into the obese section he should only care about it for health reasons. Because any guy who doesn't want his S.O. to live a long and healthy life, needs their head checked.

Thats awful, its not your fault! 130 is FAR from overweight, and the chair breaking was just ironic. NOT YOUR FAULT!

hmmm.. weigh yourself recently? Might not be 130 anymore.

Blanket statements like "if you're ____ and weigh ____ you're overweight" are just silly. I can't believe that I'm reading people say that I am overweight at 5'5ish and somewhere around 125-130 pounds. Either you have an extremely unhealthy view of how women should look, or just have no conception of what the women you see every day actually weigh. It's sad that people go around thinking like this, and that women end up internalizing it and feeling bad about themselves when they have no reason to...

OK...I just read all of these comments, and I'm a girl, 5'3" and weigh 130 pounds. I work out a lot and don't feel like I'm fat, and when I used to weigh 115 pounds...I looked like a skeleton. So, from my personal opinion, anyone calling this girl fat is being completely ridiculous. So to whoever wrote this, F his life, not yours. I'm sure you're absolutely beautiful, and you deserve way better anyways!

#90 i completely agree. you can't generalize, not to mention the poor girl hasn't even stated her height or any more information about the relationship etc to make such sweeping statements. For the guy that said that the extra 10 pounds just wasn't asthetically pleasing...does it make a different if that extra 10lbs is distributed among large breasts, a great ass and thick thighs...because I don't know too many men that complain about it then. If it is in the tummy area then maybe the person could work out but come on now he could have been more tactful in breaking up with her. If he isnt attracted to her then, fine, he felt he needed to move on...that doesnt make him a dick...it is how he went about it that made him a dick especially when they have been together almost a year. You think he may have said something earlier? And if you were 130 when you started dating then it sounds like he was grasping at straws and just wanted to get out of it. Anyway...screw him. Plenty more fish in the sea.

I'm 5'5" and 135 so I'm totally on your side. 130 is not fat and he sounds like a complete jack ass. You should be thanking your lucky stars you weren't with him for any longer and that chair is a piece of junk if it broke under that little of weight.

Sweet mother! Some of you people are a little too intimate with that BMI scale... I am 5'8" and used to weigh 146 lbs. I had my family and doctor worried because my chest, rib and hip bones were poking out. Can you tell me how the BMI scale applies??? I am a large bone framed woman... The BMI does not take into account bone density, or muscle mass. I was told to gain 5 to 10 lbs! Sweetheart, you are better off without the guy. It's better to be with someone you are compatible with sexually, and emotionally. It sounds like he was a bit immature if he couldn't express the way he really felt.. Instead of saying this relationship is not fulfilling my needs, he called you fat and unsexy. I'm sure when you think about it deep down, you weren't happy either.