Her dad doesn't need to "chill". She obviously didn't even ask if she could leave. I hope that taught her a lesson so that she doesn't do it again. Her dad is looking out for her. He seems like a better father than a lot of other teens have. I guess this generation just feels they're entitled to everything. Or maybe your parents just let you do whatever you want at 14 years old. Maybe one day in the future you'll see what I'm trying to say.

I think what made it worse was that I was 14, and he was 17 xP

My current boyfriend and I started dating when I was 14 and he was 17. Today we've been dating for almost 3 years, both of my parents love him & his love me. We were actually just talking yesterday about how absurd it sounds that we started dating at those ages, especially with that gap. But, it worked :)

Where is this official age stated exactly?

Kastra is officially the official who officially decided when relationships may officially start. I don't remember voting for you.

yes but there comes a point where parents need to start backing off and her dad didnt so she did what she thought was right Its dinner people they're not gonna do much more then kissing, if that, chill out FYL

No, actually the dad did the right thing because unless its abuse (hitting, starving her) then he can decide to take her out of a date at any point. It might not make him popular but it is his money feeding and keeping her safe and his house she lives in so it is his right to say who she can and cannot hang out with. Take this before a judge and he will side with the child. "I am in love with him," is not an excuse because this was their first date. When she is 18 then she is allowed to do as she pleases but this is not an argument because her father is the parent and decided this was what he was going to do and it is the right, fair thing in his mind. And no, it's not just dinner. She snuck out without permission then she deserves to be punished.

*will not side with the child.... forgot a word there.

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