Miscellaneous: Today, I was in my new boyfriend's apartment for the first time....

By Anonymous - 01/07/2009 19:18 - United States

Today, I was in my new boyfriend's apartment for the first time. As I was flipping through his photo albums, I came across one full of disturbingly candid pictures of me. I found some as early as my trip to the state fair, three years ago. I met my boyfriend two months ago. FML

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Get out of there, fast

By LeaveMeAlone - 23/02/2021 22:56

Today, I went on a date with a really cute guy. Things were going great, so we went to his place. While he was in the bathroom, I absentmindedly looked around his apartment. Unfortunately, his living room cupboard was half open, and I saw a shrine of pictures of me. Apparently, he's been stalking me for months. FML

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By wellthatsucks - 05/07/2015 19:18 - United States

Today, my boyfriend of 6 months was showing me his new phone. He accidentally opened his gallery, which contains 3 photos: one of his motorcycle, one of his new game console, and a naked photo of his ex. FML

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Get out, now

By Hélène - 01/05/2021 10:58

Today, my boyfriend invited me over for dinner for the first time. The place was full of his ex's stuff, books on the shelves, makeup in the bathroom, clothes in the closet and even shoes on the floor. Not to mention creepy plush toys staring at me. She left him 8 years ago. FML

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Bit on the side

By Anonymous - 01/04/2023 17:00 - United States - Portland

Today my boyfriend left his camera with me. I wanted to see the recent photos we took at the park next to my house. I scrolled through and found pictures of him and his ex-girlfriend the weekend before at the same park, posing under the same tree we had taken a photo. We've been together for a year. FML

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By Yup - 13/06/2010 07:48 - United States

Today, I went to my boyfriend's mom's house for the first time. They had a cook-out so I got to meet his whole entire family. I went into the kitchen to find a huge picture of his ex-girlfriend on his mom's fridge. FML

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By WasZumTeufel? - 01/01/2013 00:55 - Germany - Kabel

Today, my boyfriend took me to his house and introduced me to his parents. He also showed me around his bedroom. I think he forgot to remove the dartboard on his wall, taped to which was a swiss-cheesed printout of one of my Facebook photos. FML

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Call the police

By Anonymous - 10/06/2021 22:00 - Australia - Abbotsford

Today, I was looking at my pictures and there are none of me and my boyfriend together. The only photographic evidence of our relationship are pictures of bruises he has given me. FML

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By XxHinkaixX - 01/08/2010 02:28 - United States

Today, my boyfriend and I were looking through an old photo album of mine. I turned to a page with a picture of me on my last day of college. I thought the picture was quite nice. He turned to me and said, "Don't worry, I take bad pictures too." FML

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By datgirl92 - 24/05/2013 14:00 - Canada - Toronto

Today, my friends and I were talking about the creepy stranger that used to stalk me back in high school. I guess his looks changed a lot through the years because I found out that he's my current boyfriend of four months. FML

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By Vgameboi - 15/02/2010 03:09 - United States

Today, my boyfriend told me he was showing off pictures of me to co-workers. It wasn't until later that he said, "Don't worry, they were old pictures, from when you were hot." They were from four years ago. FML

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Thursday 2 July 2009 1:32

looks like he's been stalking you o_O

katekappy 0

Thursday 2 July 2009 1:33

Thats creepy!! What did u do??

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Hjelloo 0

Sunday 5 July 2009 6:11

I love all these SERIOUS comments saying "kill him." Yeah, murdering an alleged creeper really makes you look like the better person.

mad_duh13 0

Sunday 5 July 2009 10:10

RUN AWAYYY!

dblair 0

Monday 6 July 2009 10:42

IMHO #1) id find a way to document these pictures; bring a high-resolution camera next time you go to his place and take detailed photos if you can. (i probably would take the album outright, but that would be stealing, by law.) #2) confront him calmly about the pictures. see if he has any logical responses. listen carefully to what he says, and write it down asap (or text it to yourself), in case you feel the need to proceed to step 3. #3) go to the police. file a complaint and present the pictures and quote his explanation. if you feel threatened, get a restraining order. yes, restraining orders are difficult to enforce, but at least you have some legal ground to stand on if you have real stalking problems here.

dblair 0

Monday 6 July 2009 11:01

oh yeah, and in response to everyone who says "who really cares?" stalking is a indicator of a high degree of social ineptitude. you know what other kind of criminal is also often extremely socially inept? murderers. anyone pay attention to the news lately? how 'bout the college student in new york (iirc) who was murdered by her obsessed, stalking classmate? stalkers invest so much emotion into that one person that they can have extreme psychotic reactions to normal events in a relationship, i.e. a guy (stalker) watching the girl (the stalked) talk friendlily with a random guy, perhaps harmlessly flirting. even a semi-socially apt guy would likely be annoyed. a stalker could develop EXTREMELY possessive feelings and the fear of losing the girl to another man could lead him to violence. (i do have some formal psychological education, but i know, i do watch too much csi and law and order. leave me alone :P)

AJx3 0

Tuesday 7 July 2009 14:49

lol csi and law and order is seriously bomb! i srsly heart greg sanders, but getting off topic... *cough* i agree w/#319... that's really scary and you should probably take care in deciding how to handle this situation.