By Tashie01 - 29/04/2012 10:10 - Australia
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What i'd like to know is how he got pictures of me showering without me knowing. :/
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Creeper!
Pics or it didn't happen.
Not all creepy stalker types are gay, thank you very much.
You assume that both OP and Roommate are men, but no one's gender is specified. OP could be a woman and Roommate could be a man or vice versa, or they could both be women.
Op said that the roommate is male.
Gay, straight, lesbian, bi, transgender or queer, it doesn't matter and it's still wrong.
Throw them out. Or take one of your roomate and add it to the stack. That'll creep 'em out
That'll make for an interesting conversation later
Not gay. And there is a lock. But its a two story house so theres no way in hell he could get them from the window!
you're saying there's no tall trees or other houses with 2 or more floors in the vicinity of where you are?
If I were you OP, I'd take them to the police. It sounds likely to be voyeurism, especially the showering, and after a quick google search it's illegal under Australian law. I don't know how he got them, maybe a hidden camera in a vent or the like. I'd leave it for the police to look for.
That's extremely creepy. One day when he's gone, maybe you could scour the house for the cameras, smash them up and leave them on his bed? :) Then wait there and confront him about it.
It may be hidden cameras. I would see if you can have someone check that out. And the window may still be possible, depending on how dedicated he is.
I wouldn't confront him or try to figure out how he did it. I'd just take those photos straight to the police if I were you and not go back to that house until you know he's gone & won't come back. Stay with a friend and get a new place if you must. And a restraining order.
Sorry for posting pretty much the same thing on both your comments, OP. It's just I really hope you see them and follow my advice because it doesn't seem like many others here, including you, are taking this seriously enough. You could be in real danger here. I hope you're safe now.
I know it sounds counter intuitive, but the next time you shower when he's home leave the door wide open. Make sure that he sees you naked. Don't be shy, he already has. Show him what he wants to see, but this time YOU are in control of his viewing. You become the initiator rather than the victim. After he sees you naked have a convo with him. Tell him that you know about his secret photos and if he ever wants to see you makes again he will give you the photos and the camera and never take any more. You don't have to have sex with him. I wouldn't recommend that at all. Just let him have a peek now and again. He will stop being creepy, and you will be in charge of what he gets to see. Make the power yours, not his.
makes = naked And one more thing, another thing you can do is take the photos then tell him you have them. Get him to give you the camera on threat of calling the cops. Then guess who is paying ALL of the rent for the next year? I'd still recommend giving him a free show every once in a while. Otherwise he will find other ways to be creepy. If you want to keep living with him you need to bring his creep into the light.
now I know what OP means
you're saying there's no tall trees or buildings with 2 or more floors within eyesight of your window?!
Hi OP! I was wondering why it was yellow..
Time to get a new roommate
That's... Not right.
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That is so creepy
If you have a stalker, your doing something right.