I would see your point if she wouldnt have waltzed into IHOP with her child in tow. Thats not exactly the safest way to tell your boyfriend you have a child. If she was protecting the child, she would have told the boyfriend after six months, not shown him! I fully agree that single parents should hold off on having their significant others meet their child(ren). If I were to take your argument one step further, I would say that a single parent shouldnt date at all because it would be putting their child in danger. As a single parent I rarely date. If I date someone that I dont already know, or have common friends with, I take other precautions to protect myself and my child.

wow if any of you were in this situation i doubt any of you would have the balls to break up with her

gosh & those are the things female/male should lets us know first before even going into a relationship everyone handles people with kids differently, i for instance do not like dating people with kids.

It shouldn't.

I should hope it doesnt

So did it?

I don't blame her for keeping him a secret. She was probably afraid of scaring you off.

Yea, it changes shit. This is just your 3 yr. old son, that you never ******* told me about.

Waste of six months? Or still together?

Are you still together?