Miscellaneous: Today, I was talking to my friend, who was telling me he's having...

By Anonymous - 19/07/2015 06:49 - United Kingdom - Middlewich

Today, I was talking to my friend, who was telling me he's having suicidal thoughts lately. He then said he'd be back in a few minutes. Nearly an hour passed. I panicked, thinking he'd offed himself. Several minutes after I called the emergency services, he messaged me, saying "K, back." FML

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Today, my friend broke ties with me after I came out of the hospital from attempted suicide. She was the one who called the police for me to go in there in the first place. FML

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Today, I called a suicide prevention hotline. No one picked up. FML

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Today, my friend's dad had a heart attack. Without realizing what I was saying, I texted her, "If you need anything, you know I'll be there in a heartbeat." FML

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Today, my grandfather showed up at my house in a panic. He rushed over, with a gun, because I wasn't answering his texts and he thought something had happened to me. I was asleep. FML

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By Anonymous - 16/09/2023 08:00

Today, I texted a friend saying I urgently needed his help. He gushed back along the lines of, "Glad you reached out, everyone has noticed your terrible frame of mind, you’re a suicide risk." I meant help with a tricky Excel spreadsheet, but thanks for the support I guess. FML

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Fiorella1 19

Monday 20 July 2015 0:13

It's better safe than sorry OP.

jimmer23 21

Monday 20 July 2015 0:13

Good friend. And they have help for people having suicidal thoughts, you probably helped him out quite a bit anyways.

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oceanbrickfire 21

Monday 20 July 2015 0:28

You sound like a great friend, it was the right thing to do.

ber4fun 23

Monday 20 July 2015 0:32

I'd say it's more F his life if he's the one feeling that way but at least you're there for him.

CommentKing207 23

Monday 20 July 2015 0:33

It's ok OP. It sucks to have a friend with suicidal thoughts, I've gone through it, but you were trying to protect your friend. You're a great person OP.

AviKerensky 17

Monday 20 July 2015 0:34

A reasonable precaution. You did the right thing, OP.

drummerok 9

Monday 20 July 2015 0:34

tiredofwaiting 25

Monday 20 July 2015 0:44

You are a good friend for worrying about your friend. Don't feel bad. I would have done the same thing.

Miss_Mandi 29

Monday 20 July 2015 0:53

You did the right thing. As someone that has had depression, thank you for being better safe than sorry.

ratboy07 10

Monday 20 July 2015 0:59

It was the right thing to do. I'm sure the emergency services that you called will understand.

persianchick 13

Monday 20 July 2015 1:01

Yo you were just worried and tried to help, nothing wrong with that. You're a great friend (:

Quetzal27 12

Monday 20 July 2015 1:16

Hard call to make..... glad you did the right thing, but could you not have called him first... since you say he massaged you? Even so, you were a good friend

ThePandoricaOpen 18

Monday 20 July 2015 6:11

I'm going to assume since the friend said

ThePandoricaOpen 18

Monday 20 July 2015 6:13

*I'm going to assume that since the friend said he'd be back in a few minutes, that he was away from his phone, and therefore wouldn't have seen the message until he got back, rendering texting him not only pointless, but might cause OP to worry more.