It so isn't fair to say that a woman's mother is what she will become. **** that. I don't ever want to be like my mother. I think that only applies to what the mother looks like (weight and how much/or little she has aged.

I didn't say it's fair -- it just is.

i agree, it's probably inevitable that a woman will age like her mother (although i've seen exceptions), but acting like her can be helped. My mom is nothing like my grandmother (thank god).

You have a lot to learn about the world, man.

Say "I mean" one more time, I dare you.

unless the affair was with the mother, in which case there is little chance of hiding it. This also explains the true reason for the Jealous mother who doesn't want her seeing anyone else.

The bit about mental illness was most likely another lie. How stupid are you?

I'm pretty sure that the original commenter was using sarcasm.

you know, this is a site about how ****** up life can be. Unless the topic is completely unrelated, I don't think any comment needs to be moderated. My two cents about the mother: rent a paint sprayer and paint the entire house neon green- on the inside- without removing any furniture, belongings, etc. you'll need about a day to do this, probably, and probably 4 hours of drying time- minimum- for every surface. you can even skimp on the paint- why the hell bother making this look like a professional job?- and use only one five-gallon container of paint. get an extra bucket, pour half the paint in that, mix both with water until both buckets are full, you'll be done with the house in no time. The other advantage of this is that you can stensil the word 'BITCH' into every room with masking tape. for best effect, do this above her bed too, so that she has to see it every night before she falls asleep. with two, three friends, you can have this done to spectacular effect and have all your belongings moved out in one day.