By Anonymous - 20/03/2013 17:38 - United States - Kalamazoo

Today, I went out to Applebees with a girl I like and a group of friends. Someone asked if the girl and I were dating. She instantly replied with a bit of disgust "What? No way, never!" It would have been nice to know before paying for the last ten or so dates we went on. FML
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Iceman226 tells us more.

The dates were actual dates, she knew it. We had cuddle and make-out sessions as well. After that night I talked with her on where things were going. Turns out she still has feelings for her Ex overseas (there in a complicated relationship so technically it's not even her Ex) and she was just using me because she got "lonely." I'll admit that I deserved some of what I got as I was ignorant and blinded but it still sucks. Oh, haha, she says I'm one of her best friends and she still wants to be friends. Seriously FML

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It's hard to know whether this is a YDI or not depending on circumstances. On these ten "dates", did she give you reason to believe you're more than friends? If so, then yeah, FYL.

chelsearenaeee 16

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duckit 0

Quit paying for her and find a real gf

Well now you know to save your money.

If you're paying for dates you best be makin moves

Atchoo 8

Say nothing, continue to go out on "dates" with her, and conveniently forget your wallet every time.

She was obviously using you. No one pays for 10 "dates" without some expectation. Granted he was lame for not making moves. She's just a biotch. You should told them that she puts out for food.

token_blackguy 18

Don't pay if they don't put out.

fed_up_thespian 9

Um, that's more or less prostitution... Except you're paying for sex with food. So, pretty lame prostitution.

she's a frigging *****. bitch her out as loud and make a scene. that's the cure for rude insensitive bitches.

Grauncho 27

Word of advice. Go Dutch at first in order to get to know each other before you immediately decide to just throw your money at her. It screams desperation and look where that got you.