By Anonymous - 20/03/2013 17:38 - United States - Kalamazoo

Today, I went out to Applebees with a girl I like and a group of friends. Someone asked if the girl and I were dating. She instantly replied with a bit of disgust "What? No way, never!" It would have been nice to know before paying for the last ten or so dates we went on. FML
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Iceman226 tells us more.

The dates were actual dates, she knew it. We had cuddle and make-out sessions as well. After that night I talked with her on where things were going. Turns out she still has feelings for her Ex overseas (there in a complicated relationship so technically it's not even her Ex) and she was just using me because she got "lonely." I'll admit that I deserved some of what I got as I was ignorant and blinded but it still sucks. Oh, haha, she says I'm one of her best friends and she still wants to be friends. Seriously FML

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It's hard to know whether this is a YDI or not depending on circumstances. On these ten "dates", did she give you reason to believe you're more than friends? If so, then yeah, FYL.

chelsearenaeee 16

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Man leave her. Many other fish in the seaaaaaaa!

Agreed. Many other people out there for you.

Ultimate friend-zoned. That sucks. At least you both sound mature enough to have talked (despite her immature relational behavior).

Hope her boy overseas knows what's going on!

serenity40 6

your too good for her. you deserve better.

braydin72 6

I was in a very similar situation once. Right down to the complicated overseas relationship. I concur with everyone that said run. I ended up telling mine that we could no longer be friends.

Seriously, that's ****** up. Regardless of what you "did" she doesn't deserve you.

dreamer45 5

If i ever met u id give u a hug and say srry. :(. That sucks

I wouldn't even be her friend. Watch he come crawling back eventually. Just ignore it and move on with your life.