By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States
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Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.
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and all the ppl who say the best friend/ crush is a jerk... imagine this you have this friend who is totally obsessed with you but you dont like her... she got pregnant a while ago by some random guy and wants you to watch her give birth and help her... shes really creepy and annoying and now wants you to act like the babydaddy.... i wouldnt wanna go
@239 - Since you obviously didn't read it, the sentence in the post I was responding to said: "Seriously, no one here is saying "you dirty ***** why are you getting pregnant anyway YDI OMG" or anything" That would include, but is NOT limited to, "calling her a *****." My statement did NOT say only that the majority of the comments were calling her a *****, rather I said they were "calling her a ***** and all that" which was meant to encompass all of the situations the poster mentioned in his comment. Thus, my comment is still accurate (although, it never was incorrect to begin with, you obviously just don't know how to read), because the majority of the posts are in fact negative and saying she deserved it and multiple variations of the same message.
Rubiks_Dude
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Ha someones a little ****. If hes the father and just a crush, somethings wrong there. And if hes not the father, and you have a crush on him, then thats even worse. Why are most of us teenagers so damn stupid.
you are all so judgemental. she could be in her 20s, had a one night stand and ended up pregnant. Most women have their moms in the delievery room with if not, they are definitly in the waiting room. This person doesnt seem like a teenager. Besides, its sooo easy for teenagers to become pregnant. Also teenagers can raise a child healthy and yeah. heres an example: Theres a girl at my school who is now in year 13 (she came back for another year) and she ended up pregnant in grade 12. The boyfriend had a control issue and didnt want to wear condoms where as she did. She did take birth control pills but she was a party girl so she smoked. So she ended up pregnant. Her mother was at the birth of the baby. THe father is around but they arent together anymore. She lives with her parents and she is going to university next year. This girl is amazing. i applaud her for everything she has done. THere is tons more to the story but thats just the breakdown of it. So there are many things that can happen. SHe could 16 or 25. we dont know and do make assumptions.
Thank you #247 for helping to prove my point. asshole.
MiSSaNNa89
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wow well its not his responsibility.. and shows what kinda men you go for... wheres the dad?
0123frick
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this post feels really fake, and if it's not then you're just messed up
even if she was older, she still got pregnant and doesn't know and/or care who the father is. aka, she is a ****. along w/ the rest of the world.
Shes not a ****. She could have been using contraceptives. Maybe she does care who the father is and know who the fathers is but he doesnt want to be involved. so many possibilites as a i said before. by the way he could have told her, i am eating cornflakes and watching tv, i cant come. STOP BEING SO JUDGEMENTAL AND STOP MAKING ASSUMPTIONS. FYL ... i feel so bad for you
hey wait, who's the father???
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he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml
Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.