By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States

Today, I went to the hospital in premature labor. Alone, I texted my best friend/crush and asked him to come and sit with me for an hour while I waited on my mom to arrive. Eating cornflakes and watching TV, he replied "I can't". Apparently TV is more important than a best friend in labor. FML
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Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.

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gorjjays6 0

he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml

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ilikefish 0

Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.

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imthatbad 0

...You have a crush on your best friend? Even though you were pregnant? Lol,whut?

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NotNegativeNews 0

Fermata (#112) So you're saying that even though you agree that it's really hard to use birth control consistently, (and some women can't use pills, they make them very ill/permanently pmsing, like me..., and iuds aren't encouraged for the under say, 30s, I've heard, and they hate it when women have their tubes tied early, and diaphrams etc suck, and condoms break) it's still all her fault? She can have sex up to the point where she's pregnant, then it switches over into 'omg you're an idiot' type reactions and that's okay? Or are you saying that abortion is her only option? Perhaps she has a great system of family members who'll help her. Maybe she is in her 20s and has money. Maybe she doesn't believe in abortion. I don't really know what else she can do.

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DeadMansCrack 4

You sound like a teenager...Way too young to be having children.

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Figureskater_15 0

#262. So many things affect the pill. She tried to get him to wear condoms but he had control issues. guys, maybe she was taking birth control but she had anti biotics or something that decreases the effectiveness of birth control pills. happens all the time

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Emwo 0

Is there more than 1 kind of labor? I guess I understand your mom if youre a single parent and giving birth, but having your friend sit there while a baby spews out of your ****** might be a bit awkward, imo. (even if he's not in the room)

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Cantabguy 0

#264, can you provide me with some evidence, some source claiming smoking can render the pill ineffective? I know the combination of smoking and the pill massively increases the risk of cardiovascular problems, but I have never heard that smoking can inhibit the pill

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DeadMansCrack 4

You sound like a teenager...Way too young to be having children. Also, since apparently the father isn't around, it sounds like you're trying to use your friend as a substitute. I think you should understand why he wants to keep his distance for a while.

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bayybee 0

you said he's your best friend. Are you sure you're his?

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Cantabguy 0

#269, 'control issues'? If he refused to wear condoms, she should have refused to let him stick his penis in her. If he is the sort of guy who refuses to wear a condom, he is an idiot and it should be a sign to dump him. If the girl was taking antibiotics that mess with the pill, she should have insisted on condoms or jus tnot had sex for he duration of the antibiotic treatment.

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