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I think your dimwit daughter deserved getting punched in the face.
Your daughter is a bully. However, please show her compassion. Those who hurt others are always hurt themselves. Talk to her about her own insecurities and why she feels the need to put down other people. It's in no way an excuse for her behavior, and she needs to understand how her words impact other people, but just punishing her for being an asshole isn't going to solve any problems.
To clarify, I'm not saying bullies should be allowed to get away with anything. Bullying is always the fault of the bully. I'm just saying that more ought to be done than punishing them. 107, why do bullies desire to have power? Because they feel a lack of it. The reason for that lack of security and need to assert power is the problem, and I think that should be addressed for the sake of both the bullied and bully. Telling a shitty, nasty person that they're a shitty nasty person and punishing them for it is just a bandaid. It doesn't fix anything. There are innumerable reasons why someone might lack empathy for other people. Maybe they're insecure, maybe they have "problems at home," maybe they were bullied themselves, maybe they were raised by assholes. What's wrong with wanting to help them out and get at the root of their problems?
She deserved it and you, you should have a serious talk with her.
Picking on people because they are skinny? "Well that's a new standard on an old twist." On a side note depending on your daughters age this is both an FYL and a YDI. You raised her.
I had a terrible growing up being fat. kids are cruel. around 18 I began to accept it. I found a lot of bigger girls have the mentality of "people like me because skinny girls are ugly, not because I'm beautiful." ("dogs go after bones.." ect) fat girls just seem to skinny shame to feel better. I'm not real sure where I was going with this now...
I have the strongest urge to say you should have been the one giving her that black eye.
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Your daughter is a bully. Sit down and have a stern talk with her. She needs to learn some respect. Sorry that she got a black eye, but she deserved it for being like that.
Putting down skinny girls is the same as putting down thicker girls, honestly. They can feel insecure about their weight too. Your daughter was a bitch to point that out. She deserves it, but you don't. FYL, OP.