By Benji - 22/01/2009 12:06 - France

Today, my 19 year old girlfriend dumped me because she thinks I'm immature. I'm 30. FML
I agree, your life sucks 10 526
You deserved it 65 385

Same thing different taste

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I think I know who this is.... the girlI'mm into has a sisterwho'ss 19 who broke up with her 30 year oldbff for a 25 year old...

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rachilio 26

If she's 19 you are immature and a creep

Age has nothing to do with maturity. I exclusively date older men, hoping they'll be adults. Nope, nope, so much nope. I once dated a 27 year old for 6 months when I was 18. He had spent 7 years getting a bachelor's degree, was finished by the time we started dating and didn't write a single job application for the whole 6 months we were together. His parents paid his rent, his car, his car and health insurance, his internet, his phone bill and gave him an allowance. I on the other hand was juggeling two jobs and university at the same time. My point is - there is probably a good reason that you've dated a girl that's so much younger than you and that reason is probably that you are indeed very immature, especially for your age. I personally think an age difference is fine if both are consenting adults. My current boyfriend is also 6 years older than me - who cares? But the thing is - she was probably right to dump you if even she, as a 19 year old, felt she was more adult than you, a 30 year old.

TallMist 32

There's a difference between being older and being mature.

Rammer3500 23

I thought this was creepy. Then I saw you were from France and that basically explained it.

Shadow9876 19

11 years is a huge age difference, YDI.

Well, if your official age is your only argument against this, she might even be right. Maturity =/= age.

Magmashift 11

I mean you're the one dating a 19 year old so.....