By Anonymous - 10/02/2016 15:32 - United States - Wexford

Today, my aunt informed me that my dad thinks my boyfriend is a loser deadbeat because he hasn't proposed to me after two years of dating and co-habitation. He hasn't asked because I already made it very clear I have no interest in marriage. FML
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wildbynature 13

Maybe try talking to your dad about it. Explain that you don't actually want to get married

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walid820014 20

Tell him your opinion. He will shut the **** up.

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wildbynature 13

Maybe try talking to your dad about it. Explain that you don't actually want to get married

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cole66 14

sorry for posting this here, but why do some people not want to get married? I always thought that everyone would want to.

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evilscorpi 29

sometimes fear, due to past relationships or seeing what others go through. ..that's it for me

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pandalover69 26

57, because some people don't see the need to have a piece of paper that says your married. You can be committed to each other with out being married.

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Mynamewontfi 40

#57 Marriage seems pointless to me. If I love someone, I don't need a piece of paper to prove that I'll stay with that person forever. I'm also not interested in the expenses a marriage brings.

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queerdragon 20

Marriage seems outdated to a lot of people. Other than tax breaks, what is the difference between being committed and being married?

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Arot6 17

Some people dislike the institution itself. It's perfectly possible to have a long-term relationship/commitment that functions exactly like marriage in all but name.

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walid820014 20

Tell him your opinion. He will shut the **** up.

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cornyrob 33

Nah, he'll just tell you that you're the deadbeat loser.

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walid820014 20

And you tell him it is my life not yours...

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expertsmilee 26

Don't let someone else have a bad rep when you can set the record straight yourself.

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nzhx 23

So make that clear to your father. You never want your parents to not have a good relationship with your partner, especially over something like this.

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junjunbun 28

Tell your dad about it, if you know the true reason don't be mad at him for it. Oh and there is probably a joke or pun to be discovered but I won't sniff it out...

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emeraldisle 30

It doesn't matter what your dad thinks. As long as you're happy that's all that matters.

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SixthSinEnvy 39

So why not say something instead of letting your dad think the guy you love is a loser? That's not fair to your boyfriend.

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crudeandrudeguy 29

Just tell your dad you don't want to get married because you enjoy actually having sex... If he's married he'll understand

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Tripartita 44

As others have suggested, you should explain things. Explain that your boyfriend is secretly quite wealthy and doesn't want to share ownership of his riches, and that you've been slowly whittling away at his detached exterior, convincing him that you're the only one who will ever TRULY love him. You expect concession and a subsequent proposal any day now. Your boyfriend won't seem like a loser, and your father will be proud of his cunning daughter!

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pandalover69 26

Lying to her father would only make things worse! This is some of the worst advice I've ever seen. She's way better off telling the truth rather then making this 1000x more complicated then it already is.

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Tripartita 44

It was a joke—a bad one, but a joke nonetheless.

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philosophicallll 25

I love it when people who don't understand try to argue. :')

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Redgy22 26

Good luck with a joke around here. (I thought it was funny for whatever that's worth.)

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FSGInsainity 15

Trip, how can there be anyone in the comment sections that takes you seriously? Also, why are you going missing? You're the reason I go in comment sections.

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Tripartita 44

I assume it takes years of practice and dedication, but given enough time, you TOO could take my comments seriously, FSG! I blame college for my absence. But, hey, at least somebody called me Trip. That's pretty cool.

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Toksik_Kid 14

TELL HIM TO GET OUT BE LIKE BITCH WE AINT GETTIN MARRIED....but I love you

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ChopSuey444 20

Pshew someone needs to read the FML again.

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