By Cheater_Cheater_Pumpkin_Eater - 28/01/2010 17:27 - United States

Today, my best friend became my ex-best friend. I have finally gotten over the guy she stole from me a year ago and have developed a crush on another guy. My best friend called me today to tell me that she broke up with the first guy and is now going out with my current crush. FML
I agree, your life sucks 41 171
You deserved it 5 033

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Did she know you were in love with the other guy? If so, it's good she's not your best friend now. You deserve better.

YDI for still considering her your best friend after the first time

Comments

adaliapeace 3

There are several things I'd like to point out here. I suppose this will make me the bitch since you seem to be getting a lot of sympathy, but I think the situation is too unclear to judge. 1. First of all, you say she "stole" the guy from you. If you had a crush on him, she did not steal him because he wasn't yours to begin with. Even if she did know you had a crush on him, I don't think that's a just cause to end the friendship the first time. It is possible for two friends to like the same guy, and you should at least be happy for your friend that she got him even if you couldn't. She only "stole" him if you were actually going out with him, in which case she should have been your ex-best friend from the first guy and you deserved it for keeping her around for a second one. 2. Did she even know you liked the second guy? If not, I don't think you have a reason to end the friendship there, either. Only in one of these situations do I think you were justified: 1. The first guy was actually your boyfriend before she "stole him," as you say. 2. She knew about your crushes on both guys. Other than that, I don't think you're justified. You can't automatically expect your friend to know who you like and to avoid them unless you tell her.

well y'all must have so much things in common.

she can't really steal a guy from you that you never had give her a break

Beergirl87 0

what a bitch u need to dump her like garbage.

caracaricaro 6

I think your friend/ex friend has jelousy issues. She wants thinks that you have/want. You need to talk to her about this so you can both be happy and she can find people herself without having to steal what you were after.

I'm sorry hon, but you need to whoop her ass. Maybe that will finally teach her not to go after your men.

Noname7453 0

Too much drama. Its life, who cares. Its your fault he was just a crush. She had the courage you didn't. Lesson learned.

what's the big deal? if she told him she loved him before you did, YDI