shouldnt of took him with you

Hold on! OP was on vacation. OPs boyfriend has been working hard, and wanted a nap. OP is being a needy, whiny girlfriend. Good on the boyfriend for having a nap!

I live in Tennessee, too, but I have no idea of what you are saying.

I can't tell you if this is abusive, you have to decide that for yourself (and seriously, contact the authorities if he's abusing you, nobody needs that shit and he shouldn't get away with it, if this is indeed the situation). Either way, he does not sound like a particularly nice guy, and perhaps you should leave him for someone who doesn't go feral after a week alone.

Spray him with water when he growls :)

One beer does not equal drunk and as far as the hitting thing goes.... Even a flick with one finger is technically considered hitting. Obviously he's either just pissed off at her or tired of hearing her. Next time wear something sexy when he gets home from work and if he still ignores you then just pack ur shit and leave

Hit him back-in the nuts.

Relationships don't work by letting people abuse you. Op's boyfriend might not be beating her, but ignoring her like that is still emotional abuse. I'm not usually an advocate of splitting up relationships but in this case op needs to get some help.

Sounds like my nagging coworker.

Or maybe one day you'll realize not everyone puts up with this kinda shit. *sigh*. But I won't hold my breath