By cupcakechick - 04/06/2013 20:55 - Canada - Toronto

Today, my boyfriend lost his temper with me and complained that my "constant" apologies for upsetting him drive him insane, and without thinking, I said I was sorry. He hung up and I haven't heard from him since. FML
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hey guys, OP here, my bf is an amazingly great guy, and he cares about me very much, and Its just I have low self esteem, so even if I bump into him, ill apologize over and over again, and it bugs him because im always beating my self up, we have great communication, so later that day he called me back and apologized for being rude, im the luckiest girl alive to have a bf like mine :)

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I do the same thing. I literately apologize for everything and people are always annoyed by it :/

xXHollowIchigoXx 17

Wow... I'm so sorry to hear that OP.

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Sounds like what I went through. I'm sorry :(

You guys must have a pretty good relationship if that's the kinda stuff he gets upset over....

we have an amazing relationship its just he hates when I beat my self up over it,

"It's too late to apologize, it's too laaaaaate"

Exactly the song stuck in my head

sugarbear0727 19

Drives my boyfriend crazy too. I don't mean to be so apologetic, but I don't like it when my boyfriend is mad, so I over apologize for whatever made him mad. We don't fight a lot, thank god, but the little arguments get on his nerves.

Apologizing too many times can easily get tiring. You could come across as a push over when some would rather be with their equal that challenges them or you're constantly do things wrong that needs to be apologetic for. It just seems to lose its sincerity if done all the time. I personally feel that way about those that say "I love you" too often. And even "thank you" for every.... little....thing.

In many of today's situations, 'sorry' is really the only thing you can say..especially if the person you're around, bitches about minor things. Sorry that happened OP. Hopefully he'll come around or you can find someone who does mind the imperfections. ^^

Sometimes people need to be challenged, you being submissive all the time proably makes him feel like you cant think for yourself, (even if untrue) i can see it from his point of view.

sofineedsaladder 10

I feel like I'm the same predicament you are in OP. By apologizing you are at least showing that you care, and if that's too much for him then maybe he shouldn't be in a relationship. I hope things workout for you!