By cupcakechick - 04/06/2013 20:55 - Canada - Toronto
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hey guys, OP here, my bf is an amazingly great guy, and he cares about me very much, and Its just I have low self esteem, so even if I bump into him, ill apologize over and over again, and it bugs him because im always beating my self up, we have great communication, so later that day he called me back and apologized for being rude, im the luckiest girl alive to have a bf like mine :)
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Sounds like what I went through. I'm sorry :(
You guys must have a pretty good relationship if that's the kinda stuff he gets upset over....
we have an amazing relationship its just he hates when I beat my self up over it,
It could have gone worse
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He's a jerk.
Apologizing too many times can easily get tiring. You could come across as a push over when some would rather be with their equal that challenges them or you're constantly do things wrong that needs to be apologetic for. It just seems to lose its sincerity if done all the time. I personally feel that way about those that say "I love you" too often. And even "thank you" for every.... little....thing.
In many of today's situations, 'sorry' is really the only thing you can say..especially if the person you're around, bitches about minor things. Sorry that happened OP. Hopefully he'll come around or you can find someone who does mind the imperfections. ^^
Sometimes people need to be challenged, you being submissive all the time proably makes him feel like you cant think for yourself, (even if untrue) i can see it from his point of view.
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I do the same thing. I literately apologize for everything and people are always annoyed by it :/
Wow... I'm so sorry to hear that OP.