By cupcakechick - 04/06/2013 20:55 - Canada - Toronto

Today, my boyfriend lost his temper with me and complained that my "constant" apologies for upsetting him drive him insane, and without thinking, I said I was sorry. He hung up and I haven't heard from him since. FML
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cupcakechick 17

hey guys, OP here, my bf is an amazingly great guy, and he cares about me very much, and Its just I have low self esteem, so even if I bump into him, ill apologize over and over again, and it bugs him because im always beating my self up, we have great communication, so later that day he called me back and apologized for being rude, im the luckiest girl alive to have a bf like mine :)

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Top comments

AwakwardIsMe 24

I do the same thing. I literately apologize for everything and people are always annoyed by it :/

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xXHollowIchigoXx 17

Wow... I'm so sorry to hear that OP.

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Comments

DDCA 24

Stop apologizing! No man likes a push over. We like strong women that keep us on our toes.

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an3ph 20

I'm sorry, OP, but you can do better.

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cupcakechick 17

nope, im super lucky to have him, hes one of a kind, and he was just under stress and snapped, but he apologized later on

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pinkdragonfly 9

Don't answer his calls anymore. Your just compassionate and he's not good enough for you

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Yakostovian 18

I am guilty of the same thing. It only occasionally annoys my fiancée.

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wehkid 4

it's either you have low self-esteem or your boyfriend is always upset to the point of irrationality. either way, give it time.

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ShikakuKura 8

I wasn't originally going to comment, until I saw where you were from. Having moved to Ontario myself (from NY) in '08, I've noticed the daily utterance of apologies has increased approximately 3000%. It's just a Canadian thing! :D

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Jemm_fml 29

I'm annoyed by how people are jumping to conclusions and saying her bf is a jerk and OP is a sweet considerate gal. While that may be and while he could have handled that with lots more grace, if the OP says sorry so much it's literally a kneejerk reaction it's more likely that OP has some serious self esteem issues. This is lose-lose all around. OP needs help and the bf needs a clue. But he could be genuinely at his wits' end about this.

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cupcakechick 17

ur absolutely right, he hates when I apologize cuz he hates when I beat myself up

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Jemm_fml 29

good. so don't beat yourself up. Obviously he thinks you're too awesome for that.

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dohdohdoh 13

He sounds like an abuser. You're better off out of this relationship.

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cupcakechick 17

not at all, hed hate himself if he hit me

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crazytwinsmom 25

OP's apologizing so much could be attempts to appease his frequent temper tantrums. If so, then she's better off without him.

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