I'm sorry, that sucks - maybe he was planning to do what one of the above commenters said? Wait for you to go questioning him, and be ready with the ring there. #54, nerdrage much? #58, that's kinda cute :D

Maybe you should turn him down and tell him you would like him to do it the old fashion way

Maybe he was kidding?

i think sometimes it hard to tell what guys want, and the way a guy proposes to you is important because it expresses his feelings for you. and it really questions how he feels about you if he does it over facebook. it really isnt about the ring, expecially if u are getting married i think you should have a better relationship than to propose to someone over the internet.. or maybe you should tell him its fine but you are only going to have online sex to go with the online engagment.

I seriously would have denied that confirmation request and said to his face something along the lines of, "If you want me to be your wife until death do us part, you can have the balls to look me in the eyes and ask." FYL

That's really sad, I'm sorry.

I agree with #43. If it fits you as a couple, then it's sweet. If not.... whatever, he still proposed! A good story for the grandkids!

Awww that sucks :(

aw i think that's a cute way to do it. as long as he did the real thing later.

Maybe he thought he was being cute by asking via Facebook, sort of a 21st Century way of proposing. I hope he followed up with a visit in person!