By father-in-nope - 21/07/2015 15:17 - United States - San Francisco

Today, my boyfriend's dad helped me put coolant in my car. When I said I wished I could do something in return, he told me to get an abortion so I wouldn't "ruin" his son's life. When I told my boyfriend, he didn't believe me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 455
You deserved it 2 773

Same thing different taste

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He sounds like a major ass. I'm sorry op.

Gosh, that's horrible. I would advise you to never walk down a flight of stairs while he's around.

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say it in front of both the dad and your boyfriend, watch the old man trip up

novapine 19

Cut off contact with his father. You are not obligated to be in his life and neither is your child.

Don't let sour old peoples intimidate you, and keep the baby...

Why? If she wants to have an abortion, it's her choice

martin8337 35

Right on dad. There are already too many people on this planet.

Okay 40, you can off yourself first then. I'm a strong proponent of birth control and adoption both. But I cannot agree with abortions. If my mom had listened to the people telling her to get an abortion because it would ruin her life, well...I wouldn't be here. And her life wasn't ruined. Lots of women who get abortions end up regretting them later on. It takes a toll on you emotionally and that's something the abortionists never tell you. Oh and finally, don't off yourself. We'll probably be sending people to live on Mars in the next few decades. We'll figure something out. Just always think it's silly that people complain about the overpopulation of earth but don't want to die themselves.

**** old people, seriously. They are bitter

xbaconator9000x 16

I'm glad my In-Laws are amazing. Sorry OP

so he wants you to end a human life, to fix his sons life

and award for worst future grandpa goes to....

PANDORUM89 21

well it depends on how old the OP and her bf are. maybe they are really young, maybe he gave up a great school to have the kid, so maybe the dad is worried about his sons future. it was mean and hurtful to say but I am just offering a possible reason.

Doesn't matter what the reason is, he is an asshole

No matter what reason he has, there's no excuse for what he said so don't even try to defend him.

susytreydawg 13

wondering what you did to piss him off.

If you or your boyfriend aren't ready to be parents there is a conversation that needs to be had about all possible options on the table, but that's you and your boyfriend's choice, not his. Good luck on whatever you decide OP.