Wow. That's messed up. My boyfriend's mother took DOWN pictures of him with his ex from around the house when she knew that we were both coming over to visit and my boyfriend just wasn't around earlier to do it himself. And y'know. If I saw pictures of him and his ex, sure it might not have been the nicest experience, but also I would have understood that a) okay, he wasn't back home in ages and so when would he have found the time to go there and take them down and b) she's still a big part of his and his family's past (they've been together 6 years and knew each other for even longer). And they're all still friendly, so it wouldn't have been such a big deal if there were still pictures up. But I just remembering think when I found out she did that was that, "wow, she doesn't even know me yet and she's thinking about my feelings. That's nice".

cut out a picture of your face and tape it over the ex girlfriends face. that'll teach her.

Bite her ear. It'll show your dominance and she'll back down and support you whatever you do.

It's okay. My boyfriends mother has made a point to ignore me for the past 2 years to ignore me and call me a ****. As long as he loves you that's all that matters.

I totally know this feeling. Been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I'm still known as "that female friend". We live together and they refuse to admit we are a couple

Wow. That's a passive aggressive, but strong message. Has your bf said anything?

i feel your struggle.

FYL OP I was in a marriage just like that!

That's beyond disrespectful. She doesn't need to like you (tho that would make things easier) but she needs to respect you and your boyfriend. You both need to have a talk with her before things get less passive-agressive and just plain agressive.

If you two stay together until marriage she'll have to learn to live with it unless you have an amazing bond with his father