Love: Today, my boyfriend told me he's been having doubts, but he still...

By MissNoFuture - 20/06/2011 07:13 - United States

Today, my boyfriend told me he's been having doubts, but he still wants to stay with me. I asked him why he had been so nervous about us and he replied, "I don't know, just thinking about a future with you makes me feel nauseous". We've been together over 2 years now. FML

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By bubba - 17/10/2011 10:02 - China

Today, my boyfriend of 3 years felt comfortable enough with me to disclose that he had previously spent 4 years in a mental institute because he tried to kill his mother. He also told me we will be together forever. I'm scared. FML

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By Anonymous - 28/05/2021 23:01 - Jamaica - Kingston

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By screwyouchris - 16/10/2015 23:08 - United Kingdom - Brighton

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By Anonymous - 05/09/2019 05:03 - Canada - Toronto

Today, in the same sentence, my boyfriend told me that he wanted to "spend the rest of his life with me," and "I want to break up with you because I can't face your family." FML

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By Spinster - 30/09/2015 05:26 - United States - Brush

Today, I asked my boyfriend of 3 years what he thought about marriage in the future. "Who knows? We might meet other people soon." FML

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By froulita - 31/10/2008 06:08 - Belgium

Today, my boyfriend doesn't know if he should break up with me because he loves me too much, or to stay with me and make me suffer. I have no clue as to what's going on in his head. FML

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By Anonymous - 23/06/2021 13:59

Today, I was in the car with my boyfriend. After telling him how much I loved him, he asked me to marry him. When I said yes and started crying, he said he wasn't sure if he really wants to get married. FML

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Monday 20 June 2011 15:49

you obviously need to get out of this relationship, don't marry unless your in love.

CraneTG 0

Monday 20 June 2011 15:53

He might not have meant that a future with YOU makes him feel that way, but in general the idea of spending his future with SOMONE that makes him nervous. Kind of normal to have doubts when it comes to that kind of decisions. But hey I might be wrong so in that case yea FYL

Comments

gobier182 0

Wednesday 22 June 2011 10:04

I believe that this fml is about me and my girlfriend. While I cannot say that for certainty, I believe it is. I will get confirmation from her if this is true. I never wrote that she made me nauseous. She sometimes exaggerates the truth. In this case I never said that. We were in the midst of getting ready to move in together. She is willing to give me certain amnesties due to her being 1 out of 2 people I have been with (the other was a 2 week relationship). Recently I have had doubts about things in her own life and even with herself as well as how I would feel once things change. I am also afraid I do not feel as I once did for her. I want to know whether it is a different kind of love or if it's not the love that she is able to give me. As I was browsing the fmls and I saw this, a lot of things added up to it possibly being her post. If it is not her post, than a random chance that someone else was going through a similar situation. If not, then I just wanted to clarify to completely random strangers that I want to understand where she stands in my heart before I do anything big such as moving in with her and starting another chapter in our lives.

gobier182 0

Wednesday 22 June 2011 17:39

Nevermind, it's not my girlfriend's. Carry on.

PinkLuv25 0

Friday 24 June 2011 3:59

Leave him....

shoecrazy 5

Friday 24 June 2011 17:36

Uh mows the time to leave. times a wasting..

sdhood11 0

Saturday 25 June 2011 4:44

Ever thought of dumping him? LOL!

sfaham01 0

Thursday 30 June 2011 19:59

maybe u need someone else ... echem !!!! me !!

Xanith 0

Saturday 9 July 2011 13:21

I don't think he was trying to be offensive, maybe he was implying that he was nervous of having a long term relationship? If you've been at it for 2 years I don't see why he would want to be offensive.