By undanya__four - 10/04/2015 20:19 - United Kingdom - Bristol

Today, my boyfriend told me he's prepared to commit to marriage, but only if I buy my own ring and tell everyone he surprised me with it. FML
I agree, your life sucks 33 186
You deserved it 3 692

Same thing different taste

Top comments

tell him you're ready to commit to have kids with him, only if he goes and ***** himself

lexiieeex3 32

Taking credit for you spending thousands of dollars? Wow how ******* sweet of him.

Comments

hushhh 4

Wow. would you have to pay for the wedding by yourself too?

maybe he just wants to make sure you like it and its what you really want.

uh. dump him. NOW! It's Not going to change. I promise you.

It's really hard when somebody you love does something that makes you feel so low about yourself. Walk away from him. If he really loves you, he'll find a way to buy that ring himself.

dbeatty 12

question, did he say buy yourself a ring or pick out a ring or even use a joint account to purchase it with his money? buying a ring for someone is one of the hardest things because you don't know if they will like it.

Did you demand the expensive ring he couldn't afford, resulting in him proclaiming you should buy your own ring? Or is this honestly all that was said on the subject... because it sounds like you're either desperate or have unrealistic expectations. one of the two...

archiecaine 1

LEAVE HIM. It would be one thing to not value the ring highly for whatever reason, but to try and pass it off as his own munificence, what a dick