By arthise - 09/10/2013 07:03 - United States - Evansville

Today, my boyfriend won a diamond engagement ring through a citywide competition. Instead of proposing to me, he's selling it. FML
I agree, your life sucks 50 034
You deserved it 17 198

Same thing different taste

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The_Big_Boss 20

He is not obligated to propose just because he won a ring. Sorry

Comments

I'd sell it, too. Girlfriend will be more grateful for more money to help pay bills than a ring for a proposal.

Getting married simply because you have a ring is silly! I have a friend who did pretty much exactly that and her divorce is costing a hell of a lot more than a ring!

Time to re- evaluate the relationship. He's obviously not ready for that commitment. If you've been together a substantial amount of time, you might want to rethink.

Reading the comments on this FML make me a little sad. Mostly because people assume the guy is some sort of low-life or jerk for not proposing to her. We don't know the length of time they were together, his views of marriage, or even if they have had the "talk." Op needs to have a talk with her boyfriend about how she feels and what she wants, long term. But in the end, just because he won a ring does not mean he owes her a lifetime commitment. He might have student loans, rent, etc to pay. I would rather be with someone as their gf and have them pay off their loans, bills, etc and not put them on me when we got married.

This FML lacks details; If they haven't been together for that long, his decision makes more sense - even keeping the engagement ring for later isn't all that ideal either; if they separate, there's no guarantee another girl might like the ring - so if he needs the money now... But if they have been together for years and he hasn't show an inkling for commitment, I can understand her frustration now that ''but engagement rings are costly'' isn't an issue anymore - since he just won one. Or that if she likes the ring, that he isn't keeping it aside for the time when he's ready to commit - that's frustrating too...

Maybe he's buying a nicer, better ring that fits you (:

perhaps he ia selling it to buy a ring you will actually love and will have more meaning since he picked it out vs winning it

Don't be offended. If one of you isn't ready, then neither of you are. Maybe you'll get a nice dinner out of it.

How long have you been dating? If it's been longer than a year, then yes FML. If it hasn't been at least a year, then F his life.