Simple solution: Move out and don't give him any money.

*Pretends to resist* Oh....no.... anything but that. ^_^

You're spending too much money on yourself and not enough on your dad.

I wouldn't help him anymore...

say "fine, i'll cut my spending by 300/month. good luck finding a job."

parents sometimes are so ****** stupid and ungrateful

Isn't "gray" the British way? I like "grey" myself. Canadians have the whole British thing too and their way of spelling is right up there w/ the Brits.

British slang confuses and scares me. Let's ask Alan!

Are you living with him? Are you spending enough that you wouldn't be able to continue contributing to the household. If so YDI. If not then he is a dick and you shouldn't continue helping him any more.

"Grey became the established British spelling in the 20th century, pace Dr. Johnson and others,[123] and it is but a minor variant in American English, according to dictionaries. Canadians tend to prefer grey. The non-cognate greyhound was never grayhound. Both Grey and Gray are found in proper names everywhere in the English-speaking world. Americans tend to use "gray" in reference to the color and "grey" as the adjective." There you go. Either is right.