How do u expect OP to win back his future wife, and i think the flowers and chocolate are a nice start it's not like anyone thing is going to make up for it.

Well, first he'd have to have one hell of a good excuse. That would be a good start. After that... maybe he should actually show up if the wedding gets rescheduled?

It would depend on why he did it. In this case, my guess is the guy had second thoughts because he never had the chance to be a promiscuous youngster and is wondering what he missed. (The answer is, not much, but society glorifies it to such an extent that I don't blame him for wondering.) If that's true, I'd say they should both take a break and see if it's really true love, or if they were just settling for what they thought they wanted. If they were really happier together, they'll realize it pretty quickly. If not, it's good they never married. As for his gifts, however, if someone jilted me and then showed up with flowers and chocolate, he'd get the door shut in his face. I'd want a sincere discussion, not cheesy ploys. A cliched Valentine is NOT the way to apologize for letting down the woman you love like that. It adds insult to injury.

He'll be happy to give you his hell of a good excuse, but how do you expect him to start this sincere discussion if you slam the door on his face?? The flowers are just the opener for his apologize, not the apologize itself. I’ll never understand why so many girls have such a problem with gifts, do you really expect the guy to come empty handed after what he’s done?

I don't have a problem with the concept of bringing a gift. But flowers and chocolates? Really? Lumiere from Beauty and the Beast tells the Beast he can give Belle, "Flowers, chocolates, promises you don't intend to keep..." There's a reason the line is funny. And there's a reason the Beast rejects the idea.

And by Lumiere I meant Cogsworth.