Ouch, that sucks. I'm guessing you guys got engaged because you found out you were pregnant? :-/ If If you were trying to trap him, YDI. If you were just plain irresponsible, YDI. But this really sucks. I'm sorry.

Seriously to take a middle ground, whether you are a ***** or not (I will assume not) and all of that other stuff, you life sucks. Thats to bad. It is a risk you take having sex outside of marriage but him ditching you 6 months into it is a dick move. You should probably show up at his door step crying, get him to have pregger sex with you, throw up on his bed when you finish, then go contact a lawyer to make sure he pays full child support...or just burn down his house. Either way should make you feel better, right?

O.o that sucks.

Wow, your ex is a douchebag. And all the people who say YDI for having sex before marriage, you're just saying that because you can't get laid yourselves. :) Anyhoo, go after the child support but don't guilt trip him. Sorry to say it, but move on with life. It's better to have someone that will love your child unconditionally like you will, even if it isn't the biological father. Also sorry to say it, but the way he's making it seem, he's probably got a few other baby mama's on the side. Just sayinggggg.

There was obviously a huge communication issue in this relationship if "she thought she was going to spend the rest of her life with him" and he thought they should see other people. Reading between the lines, it's obvious that: 1. They hadn't known each other very long. 2. They were irresponsible and got her pregnant anyway. 3. To keep her happy, he probably agreed to be her "fiance" and then some time later someone told him what that word meant, so he wanted to renege. She is delusional and he is an irresponsible moron. The only losers in this situation are the kid ( f HIS life!) and society since it's the rest of us that have to deal with idiots like this having kids they can't handle.

You're probably starting to get fat now anyways, so now is pretty good time to leave. He also thinks you are going to put the child before him and he wants to always be #1. He's a big baby, but, hey, a lot of us are.

charge a load on his child support!! bankrupt that lil baser!! :-0

That sucks, OP. Your ex-fiance is a douchebag. I hate people who can't man up and handle their own responsibilities. At least this is good grounds for getting full custody of your baby and draining as much child support money as you can out of that asshole.

dont worry, the jokes on him for the next 18 years.

Well don't date/**** assholes. YDI