abortion is still an option.

That's messed up that some people think you deserved it. Married people can still leave their wives/husbands or cheat - it's not some magic piece of paper or ceremony that binds you for life. If these people had already been married this STILL could have happened. Really awful you guys for saying such mean things to her when she's just been ditched with a baby.

Did you only get engaged because you were pregnant? If that is the case, I'm not surprised by his behavior. Not to say that it is acceptable, but it is not unexpected. That being said, being vindictive against him for 18 years or however long will be detrimental to your child. :/ And ADOPTION is still an option!

Wow, you sick f*cks. It's not the baby's fault.

You know, she might not have MEANT to get pregnant out of wedlock. Shit happens. And the same people who think you shouldn't, but don't so much mind the sex part, are the the same people who don't believe in abortions, sooo. What the hell are people supposed to do? It's rare but, even correctly used birth control, CAN fail. No one said she's ditched with the kid. Just because he doesn't want to be with her, doesn't mean we won't be involved with his kid, dumbasses. While he should have decided sooner, but maybe he was happy before, and things have gone downhill. At least he decided to get out of a relationship he didn't want to be in. He did nothing wrong, if he is still going to take care of his child. It's better than ending up with a loveless marriage, where you, he, or both of you end up resenting your child for 'forcing' you together when you guys aren't happy. I don't think any of it has anything to do with the kid. If he's not happy with you, he shouldn't be with you. So long as he will be involved with his child, then you should respect him for being mature enough to make the right decisions for everyone involved.

this is a very simple solution, all you have to do is break his knee caps, that is all

.....well you just can, GRAB HIM AND SHOVE HIM UP YOUR ASS, THEN GIVE BIRTH TO BOTH HIM AND YOUR DAMN BABY, AND EAT HIS FKIN PENIS SO HE CANT GET ANOTHER LADY!!!!!!........im just kidding, you're screwed

You can thank Roe v. Wade for the easy solution to this problem.

That does suck, but then again...marriage traditionally came first, for a reason.

a) abortion b) start being someone who somebody wants to be with - obviously you F'd up this relationship.....don't F up the next one.