Note to self: If I want to cheat on my girlfriend, make a new e-mail address. jkjk :)

Clearly your friend is right. You didn't just get really unlucky. Your situation is nowhere near rare. Divorce that weak scum and live alone. Hopefully you can afford to move out and aren't stuck there due to a lack of funds. YDI only if you stay.

Wow. He's probably turned you into a cynic for life, and likely has no idea the damage that will cause. What a complete a**. I'm sorry for your pain.

So how do you have his password? Or was he retarded enough to give it to you, and then use that account to cheat instead of making a new one which takes all of 5 seconds? Or did you just see a conversation between him and a female and assume he is cheating?

Ouch for you.

Why would you give your password to someone is beyond me. Why someone would use the account they gave out the password on to cheat is retarded. And if we didn't already know this, don't give out your voicemail code either. Right Tiger? I swear it is almost like some people want to get caught.

no, it's good that you didn't check it. It shows that you trusted him, and trust is very important in a relationship. Some men can still be trusted. The same % of women cheat as men. cheer up :)

That really sucks. It happens all too often (mostly men, but some of my lady friends are like that too). And it's always too difficult of a situation to get out of easily, whether your'e married or not. :( I wonder if she actually had his password, or just logged in because they share an office at home together - it was probably easier to convey "I had the password" than "I just logged onto his PC that he leaves himself logged onto sites from" ... err, hopefully she's much more articulate than I. When I was younger, if my ex was acting fishy, I would log onto his account, find stuff... he would apologize blah blah, I had nowhere else to go anyway so I stayed, then he stopped logging in, I found out that password, same thin was going on, different girl... he changed his password, I found out that one too (I'm smart, just not when it comes to relationship things apparently), same thing except with two girls. UGH. Almost every guy I've dated has cheated on me some way or another - one was just having cybersex when he was drunk, but that was still crossing the lines. Now it takes me a very, very long time for me to trust someone, and I always keep one foot out the door. I can live without relationships. :) (That said, I am in a wonderful one right now. One foot is still out the door, but he's good, so far. ) HOPE YOU LIKE MY LIFE STORY

wait a minute! I think that the op's husband cheated on her with her best friend!

FML, it's very good of you to trust him, I would get too curious. never a good thing to go through, I wish you both good luck - maily you though, he's obviously an ass and doesn't deserve your trust, it's too good for him.