By fishtities - 13/08/2015 02:01

Today, my girlfriend broke up with me. I was depressed so I went to the only bar in town. When I asked for a drink, I found out she works there as the bartender. FML
I agree, your life sucks 26 028
You deserved it 6 085

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OP here. We had been together for over a year now. Turns out she had been cheating on me for a month and decided to brake things off with me. The reason I didnt know she was the bartender there was because she was recently hired and since I dont usually go there nor did she tell me, I didnt know.

Top comments

How did you not know your girlfriend was a bartender?

nitrog100 21

1. Not knowing where your girlfriend works is not a good sign. 2. As a lesbian in a town with only one bar, I'm guessing life is not going to be easy for you.

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thaqueen_fml 15

Are we not going to acknowledge that OPs name is fishtities??

I'm confused. How didn't you know that's where she works?

Y kinda DI for not knowing where your girlfriend works.

To OP: Did your ex-girlfriend bartender cheat on you with another woman or with a man? Did you stay and drink, if so what did you order?

It was with a man. I still don't know if she was a lesbian, bisexual, or just playing around with me. And about the drink, I just ordered a shot and left her one cent as a tip.

watermelon4 24

You are one of those legendary nice people on the internet, bless you!

Food for thought OP: What was your ex's reason for the affair? Women cheat because of unfulfilled emotional connections so when you figure it out you won't let it happen in your next relationship. I hope you can find a faithful and fulfilling relationship in the future and just so you know you are better off without the cheater as they are likely to do it again. Good luck to you.

Food for thought #66. Ever think that people cheat because they're assholes, and not because their desires aren't being fulfilled? Nice victim blaming there.

Also like the "women cheat because.." We aren't a different species dude. We aren't magically perfect beings that do no wrong unless something is wrong. Some girls are just bitches and don't care about people. And even if they feel like they aren't getting something from the relationship, that's when you break up or talk to them about it.

What "affair" are you talking about? OP makes no mention of any affair at all. -.-

#75, OP's ex cheated on her. It is still considered an affair even if they weren't married.

Did she break up with you for not being attentive?

Sounds like you should of ordered the most expensive drink in the shelf and then walked out for poor customer service without paying

You didnt know she was a bartender? Probably why she broke up with you. You dont pay enough attention.

How is that possible? Unless you were dreaming she was your gf.

How long could you have been dating her if you didn't even know where she works?