There's no shame in the reaction you gave. I, like many others, have given the same when having their heart broken. I'm so sorry, OP. I do hope that either your relationship can come back on track somehow, or that you have good people around you to help you through this. sending love! x

As much as we all want to appear brave and bold, it is important to remember that we are humans. Hurting someone because you were hurt is not going to fix the deep rooted pain that you want to deny and ignore. I am so sorry you had to go through this OP. Best of luck as you move on from this relationship. Take your time, and take care.

break ups are never easy. I'm sorry it happened but at least she had the decency to do it face to face and not over the Internet like ex fiancé did to me. there are something in life that are hard to get over but things like this will pass and later on you'll laugh about how fidgety you were and how dumb it was

Don't feel bad that happened to me too. I feel your pain :( I'm here for you if you need to talk.

FML Dear all, this is OP. The world (including the Internet) always shows its true beauty when you need it most. These comments have truly helped me through a tough few days. It's hard to include all the context of a situation in just 300 characters, I guess I consider myself a strong person so I was just wanting to get across the point that I never thought I'd show so much emotion to something like this, regardless how much I truly love her. To add some context when I say "I saw it coming" I meant in the sense of a day not weeks, she'd given me the "We need to talk in person" text earlier in the day. Everyone on here has been amazing, I'm not phased by the "Man up" comments, as I said before there isn't a lot of context in 300 characters, to update you all I'm doing fine. I'll get through this. Life requires us to forgive, forget and move on. I always carry a 'shit happens' attitude and a knowledge that everything will be fine given time. I'm focusing on the positives of the situation, at least now I can date/marry someone with a rich family and a lucrative career.

Hey, OP I feel you. My girlfriend of almost two years did the same to me about a month ago. I know it's hard, I can't say I know how you feel but I know that it gets easier. All these comments saying you're not manly just show how insecure people are. Shit like this hits and it hits hard, at least you saw it coming. Loss of love for someone in a relationship is inevitable, ask anyone that's been in a long-term relationship. What differs the lasting ones from the failed ones is willingness to try and find that love again. She wasn't the one bro, find someone who won't stop looking for the love they once had for you.

I know exactly how you feel dude. My last relationship was going perfect. Just had our 1 year, he told me he loved me and then the next morning I got the "I love you but I'm not in love with you". You'll move on dont worry ❤️❤️