By cherokeems - 26/03/2015 17:44 - United States - Harriman

Today, my girlfriend of a month told me that the only thing keeping her from swallowing a bottle of pills is being in a relationship with me, because she doesn't handle breakups well. FML
I agree, your life sucks 33 585
You deserved it 3 035

Same thing different taste

Top comments

rachelfromtarget 14

Well thats not a healthy relationship.

alexish128 13

What are you 15? You say you love her after a month and then say you're falling for someone else? I think you need to figure things out...continuing a relationship like this is not healthy for anyone.

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mjansing 4

she sounds really unstable, run!

"i love her to pieces" "she is my world" "i honestly love her, I really" Then, at the end you claim to be FALLING for someone else? OP, those 3 statements that I quoted from you, do you have any idea what they mean? You have no idea what love really means if you can use these words lightly and then casually say you're falling for someone else. It seems you're in denial about what your TRUE feelings for your current girlfriend are.

Rather than being a dick by leaving her, why not try and help her out?

MzZombicidal 36

Because I doubt OP is a license therapist and has the knowledge/know-how on how to handle that kind of thing? OP is NOT obligated to stay with her. That girl is ridiculous and awful to put that kind of stress and dependence on someone she JUST started dating.

I would let her friends and family know. Then if you still choose to be in a relationship with her then help her get some help.

Everybody believes their first (or first few) love is going to be the only one and will last forever, regardless of anything that may happen. The fact of the matter is you genuinely don't know what love is. Yeah, you're 20, not 15, but do you honestly think it's that much of an improvement? Five. Years. The fact of the matter is she is unstable and possibly intentionally manipulative. You aren't. You're just confused and frustrated, not unstable. If you can find a professional to help her, then great; she needs it. Either way, you have to get out of there. Now. There is no possible good that could come from staying.

Abusive Relationship. Get away and get her help.

scice03 8

I'm reading through the comments and I've noticed that a lot of people saying its impossible to love someone after only a month...I just want to point something out. in the FML does it say anywhere that they only knew each other for a month? Or does it say that they've only been DATING a month? Because to me, its the latter. For all we know, OP and her girlfriend have known each other for years and have only just taken things to the next level. Perhaps we should consider other possibilities before we jump to conclusions.