You can't be a pushover but you shouldn't have to even think about that kind of thing - she should be nice enough to mention it and talk about it rather than taking advantage of it all and being harsh about it. Talk to her and put her in her place if necessary. No one should be doing that to anyone else, especially not someone who supposedly loves you.

you already had me thinking you're a loser when i read that you were being driven against your will.

#18 You win at life. @ OP: Jaysus, suck it up! You were being driven there 'against your will' - did she grab you and shove you into the car. If you had thought of something fun to do I'm sure she would have preferred to do that than just go to her house. If you didn't suggest anything, and met whatever she suggested with "Doooon't waaannnnnaaa," then she gets to pick, since you won't enjoy it anyway.

yeah i wear the pants in my relationship get over it or do the work

at least if your the girl, you decide when to get laid. :-)

That was one of the factors that helped me decide to break up with my boy...er...girlfriend. OP, if you're only opinions are "idunno" and "whatever makes you happy" your days are numbered.

#7 lmao

Lol, this happens all too often. It's normal. Don't walk away from her, just man up if you need to. Don't cross the line though. Make it a gradual change and she'll let you know if things are right. Don't take this ego bashing as the end of all that is good for you two. Keep your head level and keep going. PS #7, respect.

I agree with #7! It's not about wearing the pants, relationships should be bloody well equal! One person shouldn't be making all the decisions.

Get off your ass and start being the driver! I would want to decide where we went all the time too if I was the only one driving. I hope you at least help pay for her gas!