By BabsZilla - 05/09/2016 00:21 - United States - King City

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Today, my housemate and I had rough passionate sex in every room of the house. Being that I'm 18 and he's 32, it was a new thing for me. I just received a call from my mother stating that they would not be paying for the baby they watched us make through their wireless cams in our house. FML
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BabsZilla 6

OP Here. To answer some questions and lay down some facts. My housemate and I lived with my parents for a long time until I turned 18, then we had a house all lined up, and we moved out together about 15 minutes away. Not far, I am still in High School, and I wanted to remain close to my parents. I am of legal age here in Cali, and we are "careful" (Meaning we have safe sex with the pull-out method and birth control) My parents came into our house with the spare key I gave my mother for EMERGENCIES and planted 28 nanny-cams EVERYWHERE! We had to go through every piece of furniture and decor that we have to find them all. She called me literally 5 minutes after we finished having our "fun" to tell me she was watching me. I love my mum, but if this was to "protect" me, that's taking it too far. Thanks for commenting. Needless to say, we only have sex in the bedroom now...

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_awwhellnaw_ 45

Jesus, what an invasion of privacy!

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emeraldisle 30

How embarrassing! I wonder what possessed them to put cameras in your house.

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Comments

sweetpotato301 7

Isn't this a saying about condom use? How is this relevant?

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CAH0105 3

Not cool to video without your permission! However keep it close to your age

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Oh_bother44 11

I definitely agree that the parents went WAY too far but does anyone else think it's just a tiny bit weird for an 18 year old woman to be moving in with a 32 year old man? I mean I'm sure there is a reason for it, even if it's mere convenience, but if I had a daughter I'd be more than a little concerned if she moved in with a man 12 years her senior... Even if she were legally an adult. I'd say it would call for an open dialogue for the parents to express their concerns, not secret cameras, but I almost understand why the parents did it. It's not the right way to handle it by any means but I can see the thought process

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JMcool 18

Everyone seems really confused about the living thing. Being near OP's age, the way I took it was that they live away from their parents (with the 32 year old person), but the parents are helping to pay OP's half of the rent and thus felt entitled to put cameras in the place or something. Either way it's still a gross invasion of OP's privacy.

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lovely234_fml 16

I'm not sure you should have rough, passionate sex in every room of your parents house. That's just disrespectful

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BabsZilla 6

OP Here. To answer some questions and lay down some facts. My housemate and I lived with my parents for a long time until I turned 18, then we had a house all lined up, and we moved out together about 15 minutes away. Not far, I am still in High School, and I wanted to remain close to my parents. I am of legal age here in Cali, and we are "careful" (Meaning we have safe sex with the pull-out method and birth control) My parents came into our house with the spare key I gave my mother for EMERGENCIES and planted 28 nanny-cams EVERYWHERE! We had to go through every piece of furniture and decor that we have to find them all. She called me literally 5 minutes after we finished having our "fun" to tell me she was watching me. I love my mum, but if this was to "protect" me, that's taking it too far. Thanks for commenting. Needless to say, we only have sex in the bedroom now...

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Namenlos_fml 20

You might consider putting some distance between you and your parents. That's incredibly ****** up and reprehensible (not to mention illegal) of them to spy on you like that. I hope you get your sense of security back soon.

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OhPuhleeze 23

Twenty Effing Eight nanny cams??? Why? And say the cams were for security surveillance, why did she have to watch YOU and your partner having sex/making love/ getting physical/ having a fuh....WHY? This is so effing creepy! And how do those nanny cams send her the feed? She is using your internet to watch you having sex in your place? Take the keys back, change the locks as a precaution, change passwords on your wireless router, have a professional come and sweep your place for bugs/cameras, also check if she has Trojans or Viruses or backdoors or key loggers on your laptop/desktop. 20 effing 8 nanny cams in your own daughters house and watching her have sex with her partner.. I'm still SMH... This experience will certainly make you poorer by several thousand dollars worth of therapy. One of the rare cases where I am actually moved by an FML. Truly sorry for you.

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staminprime 12

sorry to say it, but condoms are more effective than the pull out method. your parents are insane though. l

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sweetpotato301 7

OP said that they use the pull out method AND birth control.

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tmj25789 23

28 nanny cams? I mean your house is your privacy and it was wrong to cross that line. I would understand if she put them at the entrances/ exits but not everywhere. If she knew you two were in an intimate relationship, I feel she should expect some kind of sexual encounter through the house other than the bedroom. Maybe she wasn't thinking that way? Just throwing out scenarios.

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sweetpotato301 7

146, there is no way to justify this. Whatever way she was thinking, she put 28 cameras into OP's house without her consent. She has been SPYING on her daughter. Whatever her intentions were, it's not okay.

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devinaww 15

Birth control is a method, but I wouldn't count pulling out as one

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tmj25789 23

150, I understand that and I'm not on her moms side for what she did. I'm just saying that some parents can be over protective and if they were only in the entrances(looking at the door) then it would make a little sense? It's really wrong to put them everywhere to see anything she is doing because she's of age, she can do what she wants.

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hoponpip 20

birth control can fail completely at times, nothing is 100% effective except no sex at all - which sucks

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p0ssessi0nX 10

No, it wouldn't make sense because they did it without permission. OP's parents are definitely in the wrong for taking advantage of their daughter's trust to do anything that invasive in her house without explicit permission first. If I were in the same situation, I'd change the locks immediately.

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nodai 13

In addition to what ^they^ said, why the hell aren't you ALSO using a condom? Honestly.

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chrisbeaudoin 26

A condom usually is considered birth control, the pill isn't the only thing called that

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FlutterLoud 29

Been doing the same meat bond of birth control and pull out for three years. Birth control is 99% effective and pull out is about 70% as long as she and her partner don't have any STDS or anything than they really don't need a condom.

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kaleena01 3

honestly, it's none of your business how they choose to protect themselves

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bazoo42 25

Pull out method is NOT safe. ANY semen leakage even on the outside can cause pregnancy, not to mention STDs. You need to grow up and he needs someone age appropriate, not someone nearly half his age.

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BabsZilla 6

Our age is not up for consideration. And neither are our methods of birth control. For another thing, he is in the army, and takes monthly blood tests. He has no STD's. Trust me, if he did, I wouldn't sleep with him without protection. He is sweet, kind, and more mature than anyone my age, so I choose him. He is helping me through school and is paying for my house and home, until I can get a job. So stop judging me please. My life, my choices. Sorry

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sweetpotato301 7

133, if you actually read OP's other comment you'll see that she's said they use 'the pullout method and birth control'. If they like each other and are both legal and consenting, who cares about their ages? Perhaps you're the one who needs to grow up here and stop judging other people's choices when there's really nothing wrong with them.

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raz0rf0x 8

You are a backwards, asinine, illiterate, and ignorant ass. It would be positively LOVELY if you could go die in a fire and take your puerile judgmental attitude to hell with you.

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deathshead 19

Sorry 133, OP is right, it's none of your damn business. I myself had a friend who liked an older guy in the military, that age gap wasn't as big as with OP, but it is what it is, let them live their own damn lives as they choose.

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rapunzel13 11

You rock, it's not an easy situation but it seems you are handling it well, I hope everything works out for you guys :)

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BabsZilla 6

Just so you know, I have taken the spare key away and removed all the cams. Locks have been changed, and law enforcement have been contacted. I asked them to warn my parents that I did not appreciate this. My folks seem to have cut off contact with my housemate and myself, but I kept their stupid nanny cams. No more spying on this girl. Thanks for the concern, but we handled it already.

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tmj25789 23

Good job OP! Your parents need to learn to have respect for you, your housemate, and your own place one way or another. You could always even sell those nanny cams for extra spending cash.(:

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moores12800 3

We used the pull out method. My son will be 16 in a week. IT DOESN'T WORK!

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sweetpotato301 7

OP said they use the pullout method AND birth control.

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