enlighten us, what was your first clue?

You are a tool! It is not her job alone to keep him interested. If he had issues with their relationship he needs to look within their relationship not externally of it. There is no excuse to cheat on a partner; if you're unhappy, you solve the problems or exit the relationship not have a bit on the side.

*Troll, not tool, 22.

Jerk

You are right it is not her job alone to keep him interested, but if she had AT LEAST tried to keep him interested he probably wouldn't have looked else where. It is FUNNY, all you bleeding heart hippies here are what is wrong with America today. NO ONE wants to take responsibility for their actions and always want to pawn it off as someone else's fault. Get bent.

She might have tried. You don't know that she didn't. Also she probably didn't know there was a problem and that she needed to try any harder. You're just a self righteous asswipe.

wow! I was under the INSANE impression that marriage = lifelong commitment. silly me! I even thought, deliriously so, that when one makes a commitment as big as this they keep to it. I apologise for thinking that it's not the wife's fault for getting cheated on. the husband is not a tool. infidelity is the greatest thing ever!

It's a man's job to respect a woman. But it's a woman's job to give him something to respect.

No, cocks like you is what's wrong with America these days.

Vinnie-- you say "no one wants to take responsibility for their actions and want to pawn it off on someone else." Shouldn't the cheating husband take responsibility for his actions? Say the wife did not give him any attention, shouldn't HE take responsibility to talk to his wife? Something tells me you are trying to justify your cheating ways.

20, speaking of living in fairy land... You're obviously the mayor.

Somehow I'm under the impression that if the roles were reversed, Vinnie mugglefuck over there wouldn't be defending the woman and blaming the situation on the man not keeping her interested... I'm sure he would be calling the woman a cheating *****.

Don't feed the troll, guys. He's just a lonely, pathetic, unemployed, loser living in his mom's basement, whacking off all day and fantasizing about having a wife to cheat on. Making moronic, chauvinistic statements anonymously while hiding behind a computer where he knows no one can actually hurt him and getting people all riled up is the only way he feels anything less than worthless, so don't encourage him. You're doing him a terrible disservice. You're distracting him from looking for a job and getting his obese ass on that elliptical I'm his mom's living room.

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Why did my comment receive so many thumbs down? It's the truth. Men cheat because their spouse isnt satisfying them enough. Chances are his co-worker had a hot body.

I love the spiral of speculation that happens on these fml's when none of us have the full story. Which Charmin are all of you?

Why did the man marry OP in the first place? Thats a commitment. He knew what he was doing when he proposed. They were probably together for a while before they got married. It's not OP's fault her husband decided to become a cheating prick. She had to have been doing something right to keep him around and making him want to marry her. If women has to satisfy their men and keep them interested like you say, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, then I bet every girl would be single. Then there's communication. If he wasn't satisfied or interested anymore, I'm sure he could have talked to OP about it. And they could have planned stuff out to make things more interesting. There was many things that could have been done if he just talked to her about it. They could have mended their marriage. So It's not OP's fault he decided to cheat instead of talk to OP about it. And you sir, are full of shit. I'm 17 years old, obviously never married, and I even know that It's not OP's fault. Maybe she was doing the best she could. You don't know anything about their relationship. And your view on this is shitty. You need a reality check.

Make sure to get a permit from the fire department first though.

wouldn't want to be dealing with any legal issues and pawn off anything remotely valuable or sentimental! but make sure this is all done within the marriage!

Yeah, because that's the mature thing to do. Totally not lowering yourself to his level or anything like that.