You sir, are an atomic douche bag.

Wow your an asshole!!! Shes risking her life by going there and you have the nerve to say YDI for going to iraq. Wow. Go to hell!!!! Im sorry your husband is leaving you!!!

fist of all, the people saying she deserved it, ARE DUMB AS ****. it's not like she had a CHOICE where she deployed, she has to follow her orders. & to not do so, is against the law and she could go to jail. you obviously haven't grown up with the military, so i wouldn't expect you to know anything about it.

I know a guy who went to Iraq. He said what a lot of soldiers do over there is hand people money. Small business. The elite are the ones who don't want them there, the regimes. And im sure some people who were brainwashed into thinking that americans are the ones killin g citizens with car bombs. we're also there cleaning up the mess we made. repairing.

#45 - What? Did you have some high school teacher that taught you that all the reasons they say we went in are lies? Because that's what my teacher's saying, but I'm not so dumb as to say, "Oh, you're a troop maybe risking your life out there for your country? Well, you deserve a husband who wants a divorce (or maybe have it made easy by have you rid of by other methods)...I mean, wtf? I can assure that most of the troops in Iraq did not sign up to because they wanted to fet oil. They signed up for what they believed in, and you can blame the government and whoever else you want to, but why the hell does she deserve it for defending her own country and helping another country (No, most of the troops there are not shooting things and shit, they are actually HELPING.) And deserted from the army and gotten a job? You REALLY have no idea what your talking about - after you desert, it's almost impossible to get a decent job. Places don't look upon you nicely if you've got that on your record. OP - Have one of your army friends bomb him if he touches your stuff. Besides that, I see little hope. FYL.

What the ****? DESERT? You do realize she'd have most likely been unable to go back (to the States), right? It's illegal and a very serious crime... no matter where you are. Back in the olden days, deserters were KILLED. Luckily we're a little more civilized now... but her life would be a million times more difficult if she were to desert. It's an eternal black mark on your life; you betrayed your job, your obligations, your COUNTRY (and yes, if you join the military, you are directly connected with serving your country like no other citizen, much like a politician)... nobody in the world is going to think highly of you if you so easily abandon your promises because they're inconvenient to you. Your word would mean nothing to most everyone. Seriously, your future interviewers would see that and be like "Ahahaha no. Obviously, you can't be trusted to stay if something doesn't go your way." It's almost akin to being marked a sexual offender. That shit follows you around /forever/. And with your mentality, people should quit school because they don't agree with their teachers' views! They should leave their jobs whenever a new policy is enacted they think is unfair! They should renounce their citizenship when a new law they dislike is established! Seriously. Life's tough; you have to do things and put up with stuff you don't like sometimes. Instead of throwing a fit, you trudge through it. That's part of being a grown up, sweetie.

45, you are a complete idiot. first of all, 'desertion' gets you hell rained down like you've never seen before. secondly, shut the **** up, nobody deserves to have their spouse leave them unless they are abusive. thirdly, what are you, like 15? do you realize that desertion leads to dishonorable discharge which leads to you not even being able to get a job saying 'hi, may i take your order' into the michrophone at popeye's? you do realize these things, don't you? It isn't as if they go, shit, she left, wtf do we do now? there's consequences. you really are a whole new kind of stupid. You do also realize that if you get DEPLOYED, you do not get to choose where you go, right? honestly, you are an ignorant ****. and, there's a new president now, who isn't trying to go in anywhere guns a blazin' like the previous one did. so shut the **** up and go die in a fire, you're a ******* useless waste of air, organs, and life, and GTFO my interwebs. you're spreading stupidity at a most alarming rate. scaring the children and such. **** off.

45 How freaken stupid are you you sound like you are 8 and think you can just leave the army. I mean really, desertion is basically a death warrant for getting a job not to mention it is nearly impossible to deserve that when you are actually helping people. And for the guy above me a 15 year old would know this I think he just has to be 8 or something near that age to be so damn stupid. Oh might add desertion gets you jail time, would throw that in there but iPods are a pain.

Okay 45, you go do something for your country. Oh wait. Or you could just sit on FML and bitch about someone else whose doing it. Moron.

Seriously, **** you. You have no ******* clue what went on over there. There were more humanitarian missions goin on in Iraq and Afghanistan than actual combat missions, and the ones that did go on, we were forced into. If you're going to be mad at someone, be mad at the politicians, don't hate the grunts that don't want to be over there, who'd rather be home with their families. I seriously hate ignorant people like you.