By NotAnInLawFamilyMan - 10/12/2014 14:05 - United States - San Francisco

Today, my mother-in-maw informed us that she sold her house and is moving in with us so we'll "take care" of her in old age. She's in perfect health. We've only been married for 4 months. My wife can't stand her for more than 2 weeks at a time, let alone living with us. FML
I agree, your life sucks 35 816
You deserved it 2 969

Same thing different taste

Top comments

saraitkddh 47

It is obvious that she is doing this out if evil intentions so maybe try to put her in a nursing home and visit her every week at least.

Yeah it's totally acceptable to say no to that.

Comments

Sounds like you both need to grow a pair and learn how to say "no." You don't have to let anyone live there, even if it's your mother-in-"maw."

reiichan 18

I'm feel your pain. I hate my soon to be father in-law and he just move into the duplex we just rented out.

kacironi 13

you don't have to let her move in

Parvati48 15

I would tell her no and to keep her house. That's ****** up for her to try to push herself on you guys like that.

Since she's in good health, she won't have a heart attack when you tell her to get a new house. You just got married, you have your own family. That's not acceptable.

I would have no qualms telling my MIL to kick rocks. Hahaha. I have my own life and marriage to focus on, and I don't want to wear pants in my house. And she is bananas. Scary bananas.

Seeing as youre both against her moving in I would just straight up tell her no, and if she tries to guilt you just tell her she shouldnt have sold her house. Your house your rules, fukdatbitch

You have your own family now. Your mom comes second

Nope. Nope. Nope. If she's trying to pull a stunt like that just flat out tell her NO. It's a new marriage and you need your space. If she's lonely or whatever get a dog.

Llama_Face89 33

Mother-in-maw makes it sound like she's some demonic beast. I like it. I think I'm gonna use that.