By lilithfaye - 02/11/2012 16:35 - United States

Today, my newly ex-fiancé, the father of my 5-year-old child, moved out of state with no warning. I just spent my last $500 paying off his car, and the rent is due tomorrow. FML
I agree, your life sucks 27 671
You deserved it 6 246

Same thing different taste

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Jerk. No one should leave their child and former love high and dry like that.

MikeMikeTheAzn 3

What a ******* douchebag! You have a kid and he just left like that!? I really don't ******* get people like this and I swear if I knew him I would enjoy slowly disecting his testicles. I'm really sorry but at least you realized it and let him go. I really wish the best for you and your kid.

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jimmaynorris 4

Wait, so if YOU had to pay off his car with your last $500, that means that he wouldn't have had money for rent anyways, right? Otherwise HE could've paid off his car himself.

SmittyJA24 26

Fiancé? You & he never had any serious wedding plans.

TheyCallMeDamien 17

You should've cut that guy loose a long time ago.

Another reason to wait until you're MARRIED to have kids. If he was going to skip out on you, then he probably wouldn't have had the balls to go through with the wedding, and would have chicken out at the last second. Or if you would have been married when this happened you would have a leash ready to pull him right back. But sorry OP, maybe call and report him missing?

Sinkhole 26

Have a leash ready to pull him right back... Yeah, because that is exactly what OP wants: to force someone to be with her.

A leash?? O_o What the hell are you talking about? You cannot force someone to stay with you unless you kidnap them and last time I checked, that was still illegal. Husbands and wives are sadly bailing out of their family everyday. The guy would have left no matter what

People walk out on their marriages ALL the time. That's hardly any sort of guarantee - and marriage shouldn't be used as some sort of strange sanctimonious "leash." That's... really twisted actually...

What kind of terrible mom are you who spends the last of their money on a guy when they have a kid you're sick and i hope your kid gets taken away because clearly you arent ready to have a kid

KiddNYC1O 20

Times are hard. He's had enough and went to look for gas elsewhere.

People are so judgemental. That's really shitty OP, sorry that happened to you.

noisebox 1

Sound rotten but what did you do to make a guy do that?

It was kind of stupid of OP to spend her last $500 on her ex's car note, even if he was supposed to pay the rent... It's actually really irresponsible. However, FYL, I know that no one expects to be screwed over like this. Also, if you're with a guy for over 5 years and have a kid with him and you still aren't married, he's most likely not marrying you. OP seems like an airhead.

I'm guessing him moving to another state was what made him her RECENT ex. as in... she paid it off and suddenly he was gone