By WritingWrongs - 25/11/2012 13:28 - United States
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But the dead bird I got this year was extra special!
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I would normally say that someone living in their parents' home is subject to their rules and does not have a reasonable expectation of privacy, but for OP's stepmothers to do such a thing is beyond inconsiderate. If she was unhappy with the state of the OP's room or possessions, the appropriate thing to do would be to engage OP in a discussion to outline her concerns and wishes.
Tell her on Christmas well some noisy mouse threw away all you gifts. Putting her nose where it don't belong.
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Show it anywayApparently the OP has so much stuff that the step-mom couldn't tell the difference between what was junk and what was Christmas presents. I'm not saying what she did was right. But I try to look more into what is written in these FMLs. It shouldn't have come into being known as a pack rat. And I know what hoarder is, my grandparents are the ones! I'm tempted to throw away their stuff because they are living in hazardous conditions and probably won't even notice because they had so much stuff. But it's not my place. They are the only ones that can help themselves.
I hate when parents do that-never take responsibility for their wrongs.
Hopefully she gives you the money needed to replace all the gifts, OP. In that situation, I feel like she HAS to give you that money since she's the one that discarded all of the items.
If she's anything like my mother (which I'm guessing she is; mine has thrown away my belongings without asking many times- homework, projects, things belonging to my friends, etc.) then she won't feel obligated to do jack about it.
It is incredibly frustrating, especially after politely asking her several times to talk to me before throwing away/going through my stuff. Apparently, ain't nobody got time for that.
My dad gave away my dogs without telling me then wouldn't tell me who they have them to I never got them back
There's a button for that, you know.
Well, I guess she'll learn her lesson when she gets nothing from you on Christmas..
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What right is she going in your room, anyway? Every girl knows you never touch a 'box' without asking...
I have a theory: Your mother knew they were Christmas presents and threw them out anyway. Sorry to be the one to tell you, but your mother is in fact the Grinch.