By SadFace - 12/09/2013 12:39 - Australia - Newmarket

Today, my two closest friends declared that they hated each other. They're my bridesmaids. The wedding is in three weeks. FML
I agree, your life sucks 47 823
You deserved it 3 857

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Tell them to suck it up. The wedding is about you, not them. They can ignore their differences for one day.

If they care about you they'll suck it up and be there for you, leaving the drama out. Best of luck!

Comments

jem970 19

Its your wedding OP. Tell 'em to suck it up and shut up.

frizz101 22

Tell them to suck it up, or they are both out of the wedding.

I hope they behave themselves. Just because they hate each other doesn't mean they can't each be a good friend to you on your special day.

My daughters declare that to each other on a daily basis. In general when people declare they hate each other it's very short lived, especially women as they let emotions her the better of them. Let them get over it, three weeks is a long time to mend a friendship. Men would be faster so you could day we are more fickle, two beers tops.

Ah of course, all women are crazy and emotional and all men need is beer. Sexism is fun.

Seems this month is full of wedding woes. My mother in law is getting remarried on the 22nd, and she apparently feels it's totally appropriate to have invited my Husbands ex-wife, who divorced him after cheating on him. She can't figure out why we're not ok with that.

notsofriendly 17

IMO, if they can't patch things up, de-bridesmaid both. I wouldn't want to risk their drama ruining me and my husband's day.

I mean, I can see your point but everyone here saying that are forgetting the dresses. If she had them fitted and order special dresses, that's at least a four month prior thing. And then there's the issues of how much they had to pay for that dress. If she could replace them, there's no telling if her replacement bridesmaids could fit into those dresses. Unless OP is cool having no one walk with the groomsmen, it's going to be one awkward wedding. It's easier to just tell her friends to put up or shut up.

Tell them to suck it up till after the wedding, it's not their day, it's yours.

If they can't put it aside for YOUR wedding, then they don't deserve your friendship, or to be at your wedding. As long as its not for a really good reason, like one slept with the other's boyfriend/husband.

that sucks op. hopefully they can be civil on your wedding day

Gingerette 8