Why wouldn't he run an undelete? It's HIS OWN camera. If he was suspicious, then he would check for evidence. And even if he wasn't, even if he assumed it was photos of his wife and child (maybe his wife had deleted them because she thought she didn't look good in them?), why shouldn't he get to see them? This is not deserved, in any way, shape or form.

I was wondering how long it would take for someone to suggest taking the high road. The situation sucks, but revenge might only make things worse in the long run. Right now, you are completely in the right - Why give up that position for a false flash of good feeling revenge will provide?

Even with a 2 gb SD card, I still delete pictures after I take them if they don't turn out well, but there are hardly every very many in succession.... if there weren't very many photos overall, but 80 were missing, I'd be kind of curious, too.... although it'd probably have a lot more to do with just how crappy of a picture taker my husband was that he needed to delete so many, or perhaps to find something embarassing that another person may have taken.... it would be a shock to find out that he'd been cheating on me that way. Also, I sometimes undelete things from an SD card because I didn't want to delete them initially.... perhaps the husband thought it was a mistake that so many were deleted.

yup, not HER camera... HIS camera.

In what possible way is this deserved?! Why shouldn't he run an undelete on the family camera?!

Beyond that it was his own camera! He probably thought she accidentally deleted so many and checked. fyl