By snazz23 - 13/06/2016 14:24 - United States - Leander
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Because I would have to go 30 miles out of my way to get her, and take her 30 miles out of my way to take her home. So that's 60 miles total....on my wedding day.
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Your friend is being immature.
hey guys, since people seem to be confused as to why I wouldn't give my friend a ride when we're going to the same destination, I'll clear that up. yes, it would be the same destination, but this friend lives over 30 miles away from me, so yes, I would still be going out of my way to drive to her house to pick her up, then take her to the wedding and drive her home instead of getting started on my honeymoon. and those of you who think she should be in my bridal party because I've known her for a long time, I'll let you know I didn't have a full bridal party. it was a small backyard wedding. we each chose 1 friend to stand with us and she wasn't chosen because she made it very clear she did not like my husband so I couldn't very well have her standing next to me in support when she was against the marraige. sorry for the long post, I just wanted to clear everything up! thank you all for the congratulations! :)
It seems to me that you didn't care much about this old friend of yours, so how would this event be an fml.
because she was being rude on her wedding day...... That person should have been asking what she could do for the bride, not the other way around.
OP, the fact that you had to explain yourself on here just shows how inconsiderate people are. You shouldn't have to do anything but get married on your wedding day. That's your only obligation to anyone. Congrats on the nuptials :)
#50 Actually it also resulted from OP saying the wedding was 30 miles away rather than saying the friend was 30 miles away. That's what makes it out of her way, which wasn't clear before. (I already commented that the bride shouldn't be expected to pick anyone else up, etc.)
oldest doesn't always mean best. good riddance op, I watch my friends try to include their "close" friends in their wedding plans and even going out of their way to change it for them and those people still never show up. some are just assholes
Why didn't she already have a ride secured beforehand ?? Surely she had to know about the wedding for quite a while (unless you had a quick proposal & marriage)
It was a quick one....we were engaged for a month and got sick of wedding planning and just wanted to be married and be together (:
Get even with her. Don't invite her to the next one!
I kind of understand the to part but the from part i dont. I mean, ur supposed to be heading of to your honeymoon not dropping of your friend
The hell with that. If she’s your friend she can uber.
Better off without this “friend”
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It's Texas, so I don't blame you for refusing to drive her. We use horses here.
I'm assuming that as the bride, she was taking a limo or other transportation. Plus it's her day, she shouldn't have to worry about anyone else