By EFFFF - 08/10/2011 22:10 - United States

Today, the ex who I'm still in love with told me he wishes we could be together, but that first I really need to get over the fact that he already has a wife and kids. FML
I agree, your life sucks 33 749
You deserved it 7 380

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Find someone else, dont ruin the family

There should be an ad here somewhere which says"hot single men in your area"..clik it

Comments

Oh for Petes sake, u old selfish woman. More like f his life, that you're stalking him when he's happily married.

I can't imagine he's happily married, 120, if he is/was cheating on the wife...

He's an awful guy. Girl, get over him. If he can do this to his wife and child, he can do it to you anytime too. In fact, you may not be the only "other woman". Find a guy who only wants and needs you. You deserve it. Leave him

Was he married when you first started dating him? Cos if he was you should be ashamed of yourself for even going there in the first place. If he was single when you dated him and he has had chance to get married AND have kids since you split up, then sorry but you really need to get a life. No one is worth pining over this long. You sure as hell tell him where to go right now if he thinks you two should have an affair!!! Have some self respect.

There is a bright side to this: He's just made it really easy for you to walk away. How could you even respect, much less be in love with, someone who just said that to you? Be thankful you dodged a bullet. How would you be feeling if you had married him, and he was trying to get back together with his other ex-girlfirends, so long as they "get over" you and your child?

This is definitely an FML ... it is so an FML. There is, however, (despite it being a real, non-fake FML), a bright side to this: He's just made it really easy for you to walk away. How could you even respect, much less be in love with, someone who just said that to you? Be thankful you dodged a bullet. How would you be feeling if you had married him, and he was trying to get back together with his other ex-girlfirends, so long as they "get over" you and your child?

Is he suggesting you be sister wives? Haha

perdix 29

Close your ears, don't go the polygamy route! You'll get stuck with half the laundry, cooking and PTA/PTO meetings. Mistress is much hotter than Assistant Soccer Mom.

I hope you aren't still in love with him now. I also hope you didn't date him if you knew that about him before.

bubblesxtwo 0

My boyfriend has a wife & kids. He is leaving his wife tho.

I can't count the number of times I've heard this before You will learn that there is a world of difference between "is leaving his wife" and "has left his wife". Your boyfriend may even be one of the few who actually leaves - but over your life you will see far more - either personally, or through friends - where he is forever "leaving her", yet never quite gets to "has left her". In short: why would you believe that his wife is the only woman he is lying to?

... unless #139 was meant sarcastically - in which case my apologies for being too dense to notice, and thumbs up to #139.