By Rover - 11/07/2016 19:03

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Today, unfortunately, my new husband's idea of foreplay is to tap me on the shoulder and tell me to roll over. I saved myself for marriage for this? FML
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FarFromHome_fml 17

You know you can still say no, right? Just because you're married doesn't mean you're forced to have sex every time he wants to. If you aren't feeling it say no. If you want him to put some effort in tell him so.

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askullnamedbilly 33

If he saved himself for marriage too and you're the kind of people who have a moral issue with things like ****, masturbation, sex ed etc., he might simply not know any better. Sit him down, tell him that women generally don't come as quickly and easily as men and that we usually need some work before the actual sex can happen. Good luck.

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ChristinePi 36

Why I'm fond of "try it before you buy it."

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vOIDmASS 13

Everyone is being so polite and I appreciate that, but tell your husband he needs to put the damn work in. No work, no play.

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bfo76 8

This is exactly why waiting for marriage is sheer stupidity. Time to sit him down and tell him he gets nothing until he starts working with you so that it's enjoyable for both of you

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Spongegirlcs 17

He's not a mind reader. Tell him what you want. Most men are excited and happy to please their wives in bed and want to do well but you have to tell them in a way that is loving and encouraging. First, tell him what he does well then ask him if he will take more time to do this, that, and that thing with the tongue before he does the tube snake boogie. Be ready for some constructive criticism in return. Practice on a vegetable of your choice to learn not to use your teeth. :)

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heyLaddieHey 18

Welcome to what happens when neither of you have any experience lol. Anyway, not during sex time, you're going to have to explain foreplay and turn up the drama of what happens when a female is not properly prepared for sex (vaginal tearing, etc). ****, Wikipedia, romance novels...all places to start your foreplay adventures.

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Bearsmomma 30

Yes, explain all that and hope he's willing to work at bettering the intimacy. I wish you luck. Talk and explanations didn't work for my marriage, He's too selfish to care about tearing and all that. And does what he wants even after a firm "no". good luck.

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Strega 5

you mean your husband is raping you? Call the police and report him, he is abusing you. It is the worst way of cheating, because it is cheating on loyalty.

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KrDizzy 16

Do you also buy vehicles without test driving them?

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DanielleinDC 33

And this is why "saving yourself for marriage" is a bad idea. You wouldn't buy a car without test-driving it, would you? You can't base a marriage off your sex life, but it is an important factor, and if you aren't compatible, it can affect other areas of your relationship. But you did wait, and now you and your husband need to have a talk about your needs in bed--because, guess what, women are sexual creatures too. If you have an ethical concern with ****, maybe get some naughty books to read (nobody is being exploited when it's words on a page),perhaps some marital guides, and other things to give you information on improving your sex life. Good luck!

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Flyndaran 10

It's not the saving oneself that's the issue. It's not researching, knowing oneself, or talking when the final act isn't what one wants or needs.

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SmittyJA24 26

If he can't cut the mustard, tell him to lick the jar.

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sazarra 14

Seriously? Maybe you should have a conversation with him about how that's not okay. Start by reading him the definition of foreplay.

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