All the people bashing the idea of waiting till marriage needs to keep their negative opinions to themselves. It's personal preference. "Try it before you buy it"? That's what dating is for, and you don't have to have sex to do that. There can be passion and sex drive without actually having sex. And if you'd break up with someone because you think you're not sexually comparable, then you're not in love in the first place. Sure, getting sex down with everything each person likes takes practice, but I'm not going to practice with someone to get it down if I'm not going to be with them forever. My husband and I were both virgins and we waited till marriage, and it was an awesome decision. So what if it wasn't perfect at first? So what if we had to communicate about situation like this woman's? If that's the biggest problem we have I'll take it. We have nothing to compare it to so it's great, no accident pregnancies outside of marriage, no worrying about STDs, and LEARNING together, with the love of your life is a beautiful beautiful thing. And knowing that you both saved that gift for each other is so beautiful and comforting. I would be so sad if I had given that gift to someone I was only with for a little bit. You guys should be proud of her for having morals instead of having sex with a bunch of different guys, not telling her she deserves this. It's not like he beat her. As many of the comments said, all she's gotta do is talk to him about it and then it will be fixed. Just like any other problem in a marriage. Just because you wait until marriage doesn't mean you're destined for a horrible sex life.

Maybe you should talk to him instead of complaining on here. Communication is key.