Probably going too slow.

My boyfriend said he can't cum from blow jobs or hand jobs and we have sex for like an hour before he can cum. So maybe he just lasts very long like my boyfriend.

No, I get it. You want to suck, but you don't want to suck.

It just takes practice. Don't be too hard on yourself.

Not uncommon. Perhaps a bit of technique might help. Web is full of instructional videos. Plus some men hope you find them getting off for you exciting. Relax, don't make too much out of it.

Was he able to magic fingers your ****** the first time he ever touched it? Or was he all over the place? Nobody, no matter how many pornos they watched or tips from friends is an expert with out some practice Also, at least when I was growing up, was too excited about a new gf or whatever actually wanting to touch my dick for the first time, I (my poor penis) put up with some pretty savage abuse at the risk of offending the girl away from being in the mood, or fear of her not wanting to try on the future.

Hope he works with you and teaches you what feels best to him. Having a non-communicative partner can be difficult, just make sure there's lots of communication in every aspect of the relationship, including that :)

Communication is the key word here, ask what he likes and vice versa.

Cosmopolitan. Read it.

Well handjobs are better done by him, he has been giving himself handjobs for ages. Just practice giving head. Use your tongue, and moan.