Really? I disagree, she/he looks like a bunny and those things are insane.

is there something wrong with being a virgin?

Guess what dude? Girls prefer guys who are virgins. You know why? Because then they don't have to think about all the girls he slept with and left.

I don't prefer a virgin in bed. I'm not saying all virgins are like this, but the ones I've been with seemed shy and didn't know what they were doing. Yes, we were at a reasonable age (I'd already graduated from high school), so age isn't an excuse for being shy in bed. I prefer men who are confident in bed.

How about a confident virgin? huh? huh?

RPS, confident virgin is an oxymoron lol. I have to agree with 100 completely.

agreed

Thank you for saying that ! This one was pretty obvious, but still it worked ..

how is she a **** for having sex? so many ppl have it and A LOT before marrige. or maybe your just jealous cause u r a virgin...?

****? why? that's just a ignorant assumption

Having sex, with your partner, in monogamous relationship? You ****.

hey Danny!!!! it's meh Alissa lol. sup???

are you his mom?

There's no problem with sex before marriage. Almost everyone does it. And before you harp on me for being a "****", I prefer to wait until I know the guy and can trust him.

Just because 'everyone does it' doesn't make it a legitimate excuse to. Alot of eighth graders have sex. is THAT okay with you? you may prefer to just wait untill you trust a guy, which I agree with, but not everyone does. We don't need a bunch of pregnant, horny children running around do we.

No, you're right, we don't. BUT! If 8th graders choose to have sex (presumably unprotected) and end up pregnant or with an STI, that's their problem. They should be dealing with the consequences of their poor decision making. Then again, at that age it's also the parents' responsibilities to take care of both children because 13 year olds can't legally be kicked out. I believe the age here is 16. On the other hand, if you're also thinking along the same lines in terms of 16 year olds, they CAN be kicked out and they should definitely deal with it themselves. There's no excuse. If you're going to engage in something risky like that, know the risks and protect yourself so you don't end up with an unwanted child that you can't support. Both ages have been exposed to sexual education. Both have no excuse not to know how to prevent pregnancies and STIs. "Everyone does it" is not a legitimate excuse, true. I didn't quite mean for my comment to sound like I'm condoning sex for someone so young. I meant for it to come across as - many people are in serious relationships, even at age 15 or 16 for example. If they FEEL they're ready, what's the problem? Like I said before, as long as they know how to stay safe, that's their choice. edit: Sorry for the novel. Didn't realize it was so long!

When a very young teenager has irresponsible sex and faces the consequences, be it pregnancy, an STI/STD, nudie pics released online, etc., I have a hard time placing the blame squarely on his or her shoulders. *If* they've had comprehensive sex ed, then yeah, blame away.  Unfortunately, though, such education isn't always given. In those cases, I think the parents share the blame. I might even go as far as saying if the parents abdicated their responsibility by relying on the school's program, never addressing the issue directly themselves, they would still share the blame. Whether that program was abstinence-only or well-rounded and comprehensive, ultimately it's a parent's responsibility to keep his/her children safe, and that includes teaching them about safe sex.  

WTF?! debate on FML?!

The argument about it being their problem if young kids get pregnant or have STDs is invalid. Guess what happens to these kids or their kids. If they can't take care of themselves, they end up in the welfare system or in the prison system and that costs you and me in more ways than one. If people dont want to take care of each other because its morally right, at least they should think of doing the right thing because of enlightened self interest. This is not rocket science.

Yes they should think of it, however not all of them who are "stupid", for lack of a better word, and end up pregnant or with an STI will end up on welfare or in jail.